Soooo I have a little crush on this guy. I don't actually KNOW him though. We both know each other exist, but never really talked. He works at this bbq place. And EVERY time I go in there. He stares with alotta intense eye contact, smiles alot, walks over to where im sitting, and constantly peeping around the corner at me. Sooo he obviously is attracted to me. About 2 or 3 months ago I found him on facebook. I sent him a message like "hey you work at... bla bla bla right?" So we talked a little bit that night.. but not since then.Well it turns out that he has a girlfriend. A skinny little rich barbie doll girlfriend.. Anyyyywayyy... even knowing that he has a girlfriend. I STILL want to talk to him?? I figure he's not married.. and if he's not interested than it wont matter anyway. But I have no clue what to say to him???? I'm shy, for starters. And on top of that. How do I start a conversation with him without it being so obvious that I'm into him. In case hes not.. so I wont be mortified? And what could I say that he probably wouldn't ignore?? I'm TERRIBLE at relationships and the opposite sex. Soo any help??? Thanks!!!
well since you have already stalked his facebook go stalk it again and see what his interest are on it. sports, movies etc... talk about something he likes
We don't really have a lot in common though?? hahaha. not from what I've seen on his page. He's just got a bunch of rappers and basketball players on his stuff. I don't even LIKE sports. ughhh... i guess. i just think hes hot haha
not one thing? talk to him about school or his work or somethin. I talked to this cute girl in my music class last night, i was afraid at first to because im also a tad shy. I said something about the teacher or the class and it eventually led to other things. so you never know
So you want to know if you should try to bang him? Go for it. Worst case (assuming he's not a skeezy sonvabitch) is he says no. Or she might get wind of it and try to destroy you. But hey thats life.
Well.. I thought I might could ask him if they're hiring there where he works. (even tho I already have a job lol) maybe then he might reply instead of ignoring me.. and then if he does reply i might could ask how he likes it there?? I don't know... would that be dumb?
No thats not dumb. Its better then not saying anything at all. It wuld be kinda awkward if yo uasked if they were hiring and the manager came out and was like oh ya we are lets do an interview lol.
HAHAHA yeaaaa... which actually about a month ago i did carry in an application there. But that's before I started my job now. idk.. I guess the reason I'm worrying about this so much is really because I'm trying to get my mind off of the guy that I really actually have real feelings for.. I've been crying.. and all broken hearted. so I'm just trying to forget about him i suppose... :/ This just probably isn't the best way to do that haha
Well sometimes you gotta move onto other people to forget about old ones. Just say fuck it and talk to him!!!!!!
I think i will.. I'm just really nervous. and scared he's gonna be like wtf does she want?? and not even reply back to me.. But whatever... I'm gonna risk getting embarrassed and do it haha
good. thats exactly how i felt last night. at first i couldnt even really get thw words out and felt like a total idiot but it ended up working out ok. and when i see her next week itll be easier. youll be fine
don't. if you're into him, pretending otherwise seems counterproductive. "OH MY GOD THE KITCHEN'S ON FIRE!!!!" alternatively, you could probably say about anything and he probably won't ignore you. if he does, then you know you're wasting your time.
