Do women go for guys who treat them bad?

Hahaha I dont know, I just hate, HATE when guys are too nice or too gentle, they are always like "you are just beautiful the way you are" and you just got out of the gym and you are all sweaty and red and stinky... seriously, I know I dont look good but they do that just to get closer to you and I hate it! You feel that they are in need or something weird about it... I rather be with a guy that has more opinion and saying than someone who is trying to kiss my ass... I dont know! Hahaha

 

when girls are coming out of the gym, that's generally when they look their best. i always feel awkward when a girl gets all dressed up and expects compliments, even though she'd look better if she put on some sweats and messed up her hair a bit.

 

yeah agreed I'minmyunderwear , if a guy says you look nice out of the gym , thats not kissing your ass, they are used to your appearance, and it should be a good thing that they like you the way you are.

 

saying someone is too nice is also a good way to dump someone when the real reason would really damage their self esteem

it's better to be told that than your dick is too small or you are boring as crap, or you smell of ham no matter how clean you are etc

 

But should you tell them the truth so they can know, so they can change for the next relationship instead of looking like a ass

 

Yes. If you want to have lot's of sex with different women, you should insult every woman you meet. If you want to have really good mind blowing sex and you want to see a woman have really good mind blowing sex and want to have sex with you over and over and over again, then no - don't be a dick.

 

But you never know if they are really telling you the truth or in need of any gf. I dont like when guys are a dick too, I like guys that have interesting personality you know... I dont trust when they compliment me when I am feeling my worst because most of the time they are being nice for their own interests and its hard to find one that is telling the truth

 

It worked for me

 

seems like your insecure or have low self esteem

 

that's the case anytime a guy compliments you, not just when you're coming out of the gym.

 

i've never been into the bad boy/asshole type.it's kind of a turn off if anything..i enjoy me a funky free-spirit friendly type

 

Its just from my own experience. Maybe I do or do not, but I have trust issues since I met this guy so.... yeah whatever.


@I'minmyunderwear You are right... but I dont know, it just depends on the case

 

Depends on what they've been used to, growing up. Some are mistreated and are comfortable with mistreatment. Some have been raised in homes that love and respect are taught and they will not put up with BS and strife. Goes for men too.