ok uys, i need some advice. my girlfriend(and love of my life), after about four months of dating, asked me something i completely forgot about. she asked me if i was a virgin. i nonchalantly answered no, not expecting anything else of it. it turns out she is. she got upset, not at me, but that she might not be good, or that shell do it wrong, or look like a fool. what do i do? what do i tell her? im sure itll work out fine, but i could sure use some help. thanks. :love:
Have sex with her and tell her she's great, better than the others. That's all anyone wants to hear. *sigh* This is such a non-problem. Try using your brain instead of your keyboard.
^^What he said. You might fumble a bit yourself at first and that's gonna be hard to explain since she thinks you have done this before. Just be straight up and tell her you said that cuz you thought she might laugh at you or something, she will be releived. Stop tryin to be cool and just be real.
You have dodged a bullet... In my experiences deflowering a virgin, often leads to clingy-ness, rabid sexual desire, over emotional stress, and puppy love. 3 out of 4 aint worth the mountains of sex you might have for the first few months.