Okay, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over two months now, but we've been talking a lot, like everyday single day all day, for about over a year now, and we liked each other the whole time, but just recently started dating two months ago... anyways. I love her more than anything, and would never want to hurt her, but at times i just really feel like i don't want a girlfriend? its complicated... I love talking to her on msn or facebook or texting, like we talk through those all day basically! But i really don't like talking to her in person? I dont know why, she is extremely beautiful, and honestly the nicest person i've EVER met in my life, she is basically the girl i've always dreamed of But we never talk in person, for the two months we've been dating i've only seen her twice, and we only talked once! and thats my fault... we made maany many plans over the summer, but i alwaays canceled them all... and today was the first day back to school (gr.12) and i passed her in the hall, but all i did was smile and kept walking like in person, im a a completly different guy, like it doesnt feel the same... I don't want to talk to her or her friends, like we will text each other through out the whole school day! yet not even talk in between classes or at lunch? But i really do enjoy talking to her, so much! on msn or facebook or texting.. stuff like that, so i don't really know what to do... i think im just a bit anti-social maybe? but i dont really like talking to people in large groups.. and shes always with her friends, so i avoid talking to her, anyways.. what do you all think i should do? I don't want to break up with her really, because i love her, but... when i'm at school, i always wish i didn't have a girlfriend and i just dont want to talk to her at all, but when i get home.. i do?
you need to man up, and start talking to her in person, let her know this while u are texting her so she understands and don't think you are avoiding her.
