Everyone I know is pregnant

I don't get it.

It seems that everyone I know either has a kid, is pregnant, or trying to get pregnant.

With all of these people as parents, it reminds me not to have children....

 

what's so bad about them that would make them bad parents?

 

Most of them are still kids themselves.

A few examples:

A girl I went to school with has a 5 year old daughter she had taken away from her - living with the grandmother - because she never saw the damn kid and parties every night of the week.

Another girl that is pregnant now thinks its ok to drink and smoke while pregnant. So her lifestyle hasn't changed at all and she's 3 months pregnant.

A guy I went to school with got custody of his son then got sent to prison for selling crack out of his house. Now the son is staying with another relative cuz the mother was found to be "unfit" and works at the local strip club.

I feel bad for these children and I fear what kind of morals and values they will grow up with.

 

This is just me, so pay no real attention.

But pregnant gals are extra creepy, especially towards the end, they get horny at anything, get horny at a ham sandwich

 

yeah, these sound like bad situations

I suspect there are some very good moms who are strippers though. the one you mentioned maybe unfit for other reasons

for some women, stripping is what pays the bills and also allows them to be the primary care giver for their kids

I'm sure that there are bad stripper moms too, but it's not being a stripper that makes them a bad mom.

 

I don't know the whole story nor do I care about this woman's story, but I know that strip club has had issues with drugs/drug dealings/illegal activity, so I just assume she's in on that since they rarely find mother's unfit in my state unless they really fuck up...

 

all the really ugly people i know are breeding.

 

Thank you for not contributing to overpopulation. There are plenty of worthwhile endeavours in life that equal or even surpass parenthood.

 

I usually hate children, so am glad I have none, but yesterday there was the cutest boy in the sweetest school uniform. For a brief moment I wanted one.

 

i am not ready for children

but i look forward to when i am.

i want a wife, kids, friends, pets, good neighbours - the real lot from life.

even just for a meaningful eulogy.

 

Made me giggle!


I think I want them in a strange way. I don't like the way many children are brought up, but I know I would love them if I brought them up like I was!

Besides, it scares me to think of being an old lady and having no children to come visit.

 

I always knew I wanted to have a family...not just a kid, but a family.

It makes me mad sometimes when I see parents out partying and ignoring their kids when my husband and I work so hard to provide our son with the morals and love it takes to raise an emotional stable young man.

I understand that not all young parents nowadays are crap but with the "teen mom" generation it just seems to be the norm to pop one out and push it off on grandma and grandpa.

 

I'm not pregnant!

 

exactly. you need a legacy i think

plus i think i would be a good dad. not father

dad.

 

Me too...I would never subject my unborn children to have to deal with the ugliness of their peers. Its unethical and unhealthy to do such a thing...

 

It drives me insane to think about unfit parents. I've lost two very wanted and planned pregnancies in the past year. The day we said (couple years ago) that we would try I gave up drinking and smoking weed like it was nothing and I can't wait to have a reason to give everything up again.

I think getting pregnant is very like getting married. People do it, just because we're told we should, its sensationalized and glamorous, and no one really thinks about whether that huge life choice is for them. WHY is having a baby good for you? HOW does it fit into your life?

I just don't want to get a full time job outside the home...

 

...yet...

 

bollocks to the lot, just get a fake eulogy

 

If I get pregnant it will have to be a C-section delivery.

 

that's what YOU think!