I am 20 and my GF is 19. We tried having sex 2 months ago, the pain was unbearable for her so we quit. Then after 1 month we tried again and same thing happenend. We again quit. She had lots of pain and after 2 days she had weird period. We went to doc and he said she is not pregnant and it was just an abnormal period. We both are virgin. 2 days ago we had oral and I put my finger in her vagina and she refused because it was painful. She feels pain when -> 1. I try to have sex with her. 2. I put finger in her vagina. I know that the reason is that she is virgin and her hymen is intact, that's why it's causing pain. But I fear that is there any other problem due to which she feels pain? She feels pain not in her vagina but in the part -> below the stomach and above the genetial. Is everything okay with her? If everything is okay then how should I proceed next time? PS: We both are virgin.
Clip your nails. Don't try such deep penetration. Read some articles online regarding fingering. Be less aggressive with it. That's about all I've got. Stay Brown, Rev J
Remember, there is a lot more than jamming your finger into her vagina. Have her show you what feels good. And like Rev said, clip those nails...nails suck
