:devil::sunny: So, Just last night my husband and I did it for the first time... It was painful at first, but I had this great ORGASM that I was NOT expecting! I have to say That I was always against anal when dating my previous bf (back in 2004) I was soooo scared I didn't even want to talk about it. But my husband And I have been together for over 5 years, so that gave me the courage to try it. W_O_W I didn't see that one coming... Am new at this and have been having problems with my orgasms... Or should I say I just can't have orgasms! since I started taking antidepressants. So it was good FINALLY having one. LOVED IT. Reading this forum gave me the inspiration... THANX:daisy:
Congratulations!! Did you use lubricant? May I suggest System Jo? NEVER use any of that garbage with numbing agents' system jo doesn't used numbing agents in ANY of it's products- and totally make sure to use plenty of warm up and toys - - rule of thumb- relax and warm up and that way none of it should be painful- it you came from anal you were born for it! I'm genuinely happy for you!:2thumbsup:
Well done. Once you get tired of his technique and want more pulsating anal orgasms, hit up on guys like me and we'll introduce you to a world of anal you've never imagined before. Congrats on losing your anal cherry, and shame on you for not starting earlier.
lol yeah it's such a shame all girls don't get pros their first time! I didn't either! I was sooo eager to have anal, and so I brought it up to some lame guy I was dating, my second boyfriend EVER, and he sucked and didn't know how to do it- thank christ my third man,( who remains a friend to this day, although we never actually SEE eachother much bc now we live far apart and he's a drunk who doesn't leave his house much and I'm a stoner who doesn't leave mine alot ROFL) was a fucking MASTER at it..... we were like Frank Booth and Dorothy Vallens in Blue Velvet- it was badass.
Way to go sweetie, welcome to a new level of sexual awareness. All those holes are there for a reason, got to make use of them
Welcome to the club! :grouphug: I used to be like you, OP, but after my hubby showed me how enjoyable it could be I gotta' say...the orgasms are MUCH more intense from anal! Good for you for being open-minded enough to try it :daisy:
did u use any lotion? did he cum deep inside ur ass ? pls answer my questions experinced ladies? i have tried to do it with my girl, but she doesn't want to , she feels painful is there anyway that i can get her horney for it with no pain? thanks
Hay hot thoughts, Dude get her a small butt plug and work her up to your size over time. Have her Masterbate with it. Lube not lotion and use "platinum wet" is good. Most stuff gums up and will cause her pain. Last she has too "want it"! For her inner sphincter to relax. Have fun
Give her this ultimatum: no goods until she takes it in the ass. Otherwise, dump her and look for another girl who will. There are millions more out there, so stop wasting your time.
Ok... this is linehauls GF... Men... you do have to warm your girl up to this... You can't just slam it in there and expect her to love it the first time. Vaginal was painful the first several times also for women... So take your time and be Sensitive to what she is feeling... If you don't make her feel safe, secure, and loved completely... You will never get her to open up... If she is open to it... A small butt plug is a great idea... but if shes not ... Try anal rimming with a well lubed finger while you are giving her oral.... A glass of wine always helps women to relax... Be really sweet and caring and i think you will be suprised what your girl will be willling to do for you.... It is more than just physical... It is a connection on a much more emotional level...
It took a long time to work my wife up to anal. Finger, tongue, & toys. Now we do it every now and again, which is OK. But here's a story...last week I'm getting a tremendous bj and I mention to her that I would really love to cum in her ass. I could tell this turned her on, so fast forward a few days and we're in bed. I'm rubbing her G-spot and she says "I know what you want, you want to cum in my ass", and as soon as she says it, she gets extremely wet. YES! I suck her silly, and then get the lube. As we start she starts moaning and starts playing with herself. I'm just loving it and know she is too! Damn...ready for the next time already!
we used "KY SILK" it feels VERY natural. never use lotion since it could 'cause irritation. get her a glass of wine or TWO LOL, so she can relax and try to be very loving with her (THat's what women want) Just open her Ass and let some lube fall in there, if you want you can use a finger ( I was SOOOO willing i didn't even need that) But it seems like she does! so, just use a finger and keep in mind that the first time is going to be very difficult and painful, but YOU can make the difference. How? Well, you can start very slow from behind while you play with her clit (NEVER forget that one) maybe watching some porn while having wine can help too, just not that TACKY porn, I would watch something more realistic and normal! let me tell you that i get waaay more turned on by watching real women who are shy and scared than these WHORES who just fake EVERY second of it! not sexy at all!!! So there you have it: Some asian porn (With a NATURAL woman) Some glasses of wine. Maybe some flowers the day before. A LOOOOT of lube (SILK) A lot of oral (GOOD ORAL) but DO NOT let her come! just make her WANT it! Let me know how it went ! wink wink (;-D)
My wife bascially says you either like it or you dont. Not much middle ground. She happens to love it so lucky me, I guess. She liked it the very first time we did it like 6-7 years ago which almost never happens. Keep working at it but realize its an uphill battle. PM me for more info, if ya like.
