My wife and I are both tops, so we have never had sex. We had 2 children using the virgin birth method though, so we are not childless.
if someone asked me to switch i'd be like dang bitch no way me penis you vag and dats the way it is ye hear :frown:
With my wife I'm a switch (can be dominant or submissive), yet with men, I'm a submissive bottom. My most intense sexual dreams/fantasies involve me being a totally submissive bottom for a handsome, "aggressive", dominant TOP guy with a really nice cock. Unfortunately, I've never actually been totally sexually dominated by a guy before... But for the RIGHT guy, I definitely envision myself being collared, leashed, kept in a cock cage, and made to be his personal cum dump whenever he wanted. If my wife realized just how intense my fantasies and desires are to be a totally submissive bottom for a dominant TOP guy are, I probably wouldn't be married much longer... And my ultimate dream/fantasies would almost assuredly COME TRUE.
I prefer my wife on top, rocking and grinding away controlling the motion, and I like to move my hands between her breasts her bottom her clit when she's on top.
Switch. What be working for one might not be working for the other. My wife and do at least 2 positions. It’s what works for us.
Her on top for 69, then when she's ready, she mounts me. Until she's ready for me to get on top of her to finish.
Bottom for men. Prefer to bottom with sissies trans etc. but I could top for them if I need to. Top with women but would bottom if I met one that wanted me to.