The isolation of pleasure receptor location As a yoga: that serotonin: the neurotransmitter of spirituality, still spiritual focus, inhibits orgasm. giving in to impulse means surrendering to the dopamenergic aspect of the sex act. slow motions through a group or partnered meditation: experimental, a memorized map of sensitivity alignment (which is likely to very drastically at the individual level), and / or some conjunction therein the memorization of diverse sensation is proportional to the quantity of imagination one possesses, which is psychedelic, rooted in the psychedelic experience, in excess love. physical and emotional sensations of pleasure as transmitted empathically between partners.
I do not edit my posts after first posting. If any of my posts are edited later, it was hackers. I always conclude with this statement as well as the date the post was made. Saturday, Aug 13, 2011 2:10pm
Tantra means 'machine.' A 'tantra' is a mechanism for the exploitation of something. A tantra can be for a material end. It can be from any religion or spiritual group. It therefore is not merely having to do with sex, with God/dess, with Being. But most commonly tantras refer to the segment of spirituall exercises which supposedly work for all people and which do not need any belief for them to be effective. One of the most common tantras ever - and most explored was the Transcendental Meditation technique. It worked for all people regardless of their background. I am a tantric more than anything else. I love talking about tantra. I could talk about it forever.
I think tantra's sexual aspect is that which most fascinates the West, & anyone with a lust response.
Tantra is one of the greatest things I have discovered and been able to utilize. Unfortunately whenever I try to share my experiences it falls on deaf ears. Why, I am not sure. Maybe its because most in the west are not use to hearing experiences nor do understand what it is all about. We don't have a scale to measure levels of experience or a map so to speak, a blueprint of how 'it's suppose to be'. Maybe because it sounds unbelievable. I don't know. I have found this true with meditation as well. The reason I stopped here is because some of your responses resonated with me. Most people I communicate with about this subject, whether in person or online for that matter I have come to the conclusion either: 1. do not meditate, 2. say they meditate and they really don't, 3. people who are trying to meditate but never really make it past one or two barriers, as myself I have discovered there are infinite barriers to cross. IN the 3rd instance, some of those folks think they have discovered the limit, as if they have achieved the ultimate, and if they think so by all means continue to do so and I hope that works out for them... Tantra is wonderful. I cannot stress it. I never have regular orgasms anymore. The thought of a wam bam kind of scenario sounds painful, and I would have to agree with Freud when he says that in our current condition we cannot even enjoy sex really. When I was younger I was always trying to jack rabbit and get off so to speak not realizing that each stroke was a chance to harness an incredible amount of energy and I was only concerned about the one moment of ejaculation. I was not even enjoying it really, and it was killing me as I now understand that continuously discharging energy that way will leave u spent and the amount of heat that your body needs for combustion and acceleration will be depleted. I have had some wonderful experiences with tantra and I have been able to get to a level to where all I have to do is look at someone and I can have knee buckling orgasms! You see, I have been doing tantra on and off for 4 years and now I am focused in so to speak. Its as if I can get down to the quantum level, on a wave length and merge with that person. It's ass if I can sense the other person's vibration and it only happens with certain individuals, no matter if they are really physical attractive or not.. Sometimes even those that are physically attractive have an energy level that I don't get on with. its completely spiritual. I have had some internal orgasms over and over and over again, without one drop of semen loss.
Haha. I read about people in the West talking about tantra and know that few have ever understood the slightest anything about it. tantra is not about sex. At any rate, sex within tantra has to do with expansion of awareness and experience of a state of being where barriers are removed and one feels infinite. This is tantra and the purpose of tantra. Great sex is not what tantra is about. But great sex is great. If that's what one needs then wonderful. But that's not what tantra is about. At any rate, tantra necessitates a stable state of profound emotional and spiritual superfluidity where mere orgasm will not destroy the essential state of profound awareness. This is usually only possible in deep retreat where two persons happen to be meditating many hours deeply and then fall in love and make love. Tantra is about finding love and making love and then the separateness of two bodies falling away and becoming the means of one awareness one love expressing itself as two bodies just for the mere sake of pleasure and joy. Very few ever meditate, fewer still retreat and have the extra energy to make love until barriers fall away and oneness is all that's left. :love: Better than tantra is love. Tantra without love is just a more elaborate form of masturbation. Even if it utilizes another.