Should I share room with stranger for friend?

As well as being a student I work in a travel agency. Next month I am due to go on a five day training course with colleagues. Because it is all junior staff we are expected to share a room with a colleague of the same sex. The girl I am to share with is having an on-off affair with a married guy from another branch who is also on the course. She wants me to swap rooms so she can share with him and I will share with his (male) colleague. I did this once before for her but that was only for one night and was nearly a year ago, before I was married.

Whilst I’m not a prude, I’m not sure about sharing with a guy I don’t know very well for what will be four nights – and whether I should tell my husband. Also when either of us is away we phone regularly and quite often have quite horny conversations (I s’pose you could call it phone sex) which would be difficult if I’m sharing with a guy and would also alert him that something is wrong if we didn’t do it.

I want to help out my friend but I’m not sure what to do. Help!

 

Depends whether you want to have sex with the guy or not - that's what he will want and probably expect if you agree to the arrangement.

 

I think your feelings are quite valid and if you don't share this dilemma with your husband, you are risking your marriage. I think you should tell your husband immediately. If he's cool with it, well, do what you want. Your friend is asking a lot of you.

 

/facepalm

 

Thanks. You're right, of course. I'll tell hubby and see what he says.

 

:banghead: even.

 

screw that ...tell your friend to pay for her own room if she wants to have a romp in the hay

if she says no then just call the guys wife and fuck it up for her

 

yes, that.
i dont even get how u even considered not telling your husband. why on earth does your friend getting laid mean u have to lie to your husband about anything? jeez, its like people always think of lying/hiding stuff first.

and out of curiosity :

what difference does it make if u have phone sex in front of a guy, as opposed to in front of your female friend?

 

is it normal for 18 year olds to be married in the UK?

 

The fact that this guy your friend wants to share with is married should make you say no straight out. Like, it's bad enough that she's doing that. But she shouldn't bring you into it, especially if it involves lying to your husband. A big web of lies is bad news.

 

tell her to jog on - don't compromise your position for a woman who is up to no good in the first place.

 

hah, i hadn't even noticed that she said the guy her friend is sleeping with is married! awful. *shakes head*

 

This has to be a troll thread.

 

Isn't OP the same chick that cheated on her husband 6 months into their marriage?

 

The question is: why do you wanna have a friend like this? She doesn't care that she's making you lie to your husband.

 

if my wife stayed with a dude in the same room while on a training course i would never ever believe that nothing happened and i would eventually fall out of love with her and do everything i could to leave her and never look back


but thats just me



and 99 percent of every guy here

 

It's legal to msarry at 16.

 

Your right. I told my hubby about the time before (it was before we were together so its no big deal).

My friend and I are quite close so we don't have many secrets. I wouldn't go too far with her in room but it can get quite hot and we have a giggle about it after.