Met an older woman

I got into a fender bender today, and the lady who hit me was very pretty, and older.

She was very kind, asking me if I was okay, calling me sweetie, and hunny, Gave me a hug etc as we waited for the police. She didn't mind me softly rubbing her neck when I asked her if she was okay. We talked a lot, she mentioned kids, but didn't mention a man.

Afterwards, as we were parting, I asked her if she wanted to get a drink sometime, and she said yes! She told me when/where she works and where she lives.

I saw a ring on her right hand, so IDK what that means.

I texted her just to touch base, and her reply was just, "Okay, sounds good."

Pros: Got number, flirty
Cons: Unenthusiastic text reply, ring (right hand)

This happened yesterday, Im thinking of calling her tomorrow to set up a time?

 

you won the lottery...follow through and write a trip report

 

What the hell is a fender bender?

 

LOL. Small car accident.

 

Wrong. There are no small cars in the US.

 

Haha, I chuckled.

For real though - this happened yesterday, call her tomorrow to set something up for Monday?

Im not stressing this too much, as she's so easy to talk to, just wondering.

 

i thought it was when you wrap your guitar around a tv set..

 

Ah i see lol.

hmmm well, considering u only met her yesterday, you dont really know who she is. she could me a mass murder or a she-male... Oh god... she may have willy :|

 

LOL, someone give me a legit response, please.

 

lol u wont get one here i dont think

But seriously, my opinion, get to know the woman before meeting her again, i dont know... text each other, or chat on the phone. dont get to keen to early

 

she probably had a quick text cause her husband was around, set it up!!!!!!! old chicks are where its at! "who needs a girlfriend when i can have yours!!!"

 

Well, Im going to call her tomorrow.

 

good! and good luck man, hope its as good as you hope its gonna be

 

Thanks...but forget about what i hope its gonna be - what do you all THINK its gonna be?

 

my man is getting it daily nightly and ever so rightly!!!! :afro:

 

Doesn't matter what other people think, and don't over think it. Just take into account one thing. If she does turn out to be married, you could potentially contribute to the undoing of her family. If that's something you can live with in good conscience, so be it. If it isn't, it's something to consider. It might be a question you may want to ask sooner than later.

If she isn't married, I hope all turns out well for you.

 

Thanks. I figured she would have mentioned a husband?

 

hes probably dead, no worries dude. and if he isin't and her kids are grown up, make eachother happy!

 

Sometimes when people are looking for something on the side, they purposely neglect to mention the fact that they have a spouse, for the obvious reason that some may object. You'd be best to just ask and play it safe if that is a concern of yours.

You never mentioned who was responsible for the fender bender. Perhaps she was at fault and is trying to weasel out by inflating your ego.

Not trying to make you paranoid, just a thought.