Ladies, what are our thoughts on vibrators? I'm from the UK, am an 18 year old male and have been with my partner for nearly 2 and half years. Throughout the relationship we have progressed sexually, of course, and introduced a limited resource of toys into the bedroom. My point is that, although my girlfriend doesn't masturbate, she likes us using "bullet" vibrators in the bedroom, however I have also wanted her to try something a little, well bigger lol. She seems quite off the idea of vibrators, mainly because of the look of them, but I wanted to know if they are good in the bedroom, especially for couples, and whether they are a sort of, must have item to own, even just to try it. Basically just want some general thoughts on the subject, the good and bad points of them, and whether I should discuss the subject more with my partner, who on limited occasions has agreed to at least try one.
Toys are a must have, they open up a whole new realm of activities the two of you can explore. I don't understand girls that don't like vibes, they are soooo nice. If you can get her to try one I would wager she changes her opinion. try a "personal massager", your know, the smooth plain ones that always show a woman rubbing her neck with it on the box? Tease the erogenous zones of her body with it and work your way down, tease her lips and clit and SLOWLY work up to penetration once you have her wound up. The only negative I could see is if you have a tiny dick and suck in bed and she likes the vibrator more, so unless that is the case, try it.
Ahh see this is my main non-worry on the topic. We have looked into purchasing them before, and looked at different ones etc, and she has actually always commented that none of them are bigger than me (she measured me once), which I love to hear of course! so this is why I have been the one pushing towards vibrators more I think your right that as soon as she tries them she won't look back, thats how it was with the bullets. I just gotta get her to agree to it then right? and you reckon they're that good that she'll just love it? Oh and thanks for the descriptive advice, it really helps
For a new toy I would also recommend the classic vib as well. Not as umm much shall we say as the rabbit vibes.....:coolgleamA: You can get those later LOL She will love it!!
