Masturbation = Draining?

I've always felt that masturbation was emotionally draining. Does anyone else agree? I almost feel like once a day or more might even be too much.

 

I want to be supportive, but i kinda disagree. It can be tiring physically (depending on how much passion u put to it), but emotionally? nah

 

i always figured any sort of sexual contact sort of helped relieve stress.

 

I'm talking about the drained feeling you can get when you've masturbated too much. Doesn't anyone feel a little drained after too much masturbation.

 

Yeah, any sort of pleasure or pain is draining to me. Completely normal

 

To me, jerking off is very cleansing, like taking a long run. It resets me physically. Afterwards, I'm physically refreshed and ready to either sleep or start something new, forgetting about my mood beforehand.

 

from the perspective of chinese medicine, ejaculation is very draining for men, and ejaculation from masturbation is particularly bad

the ancient chinese advised that healthy men should not ejaculate more frequently than once every three days. men who are not healthy should not ejaculate at all until they recover

ejaculating during the winter time was considered to be particularly bad

ejaculating during intercourse with a women, while it might still be draining, would allow for you to exchange some chi which would be beneficial to you

other ancient traditions agree that ejaculating is very draining

I think that these are wise traditions, and you are now simply becoming aware of what they knew long ago

 

I've never felt drained by masturbation. Perhaps it's your diet, lifestyle or general state of health (mind and body)?

Are you feeling OK otherwise?

Western science shows us that you get a good healthy boost of feel-good chemicals in your brain and body and it can raise testosterone levels nicely. By nicely I mean not to the point where your body can't deal with the oestrogen (all testosterone turn to oestrogen eventually) and you start growing tits. That is why steroid users grow boobs and lose their balls if they aren't careful.

 

If I didn't masturbate at least semi-regularly sex could be too quick at times.

 

yeah I agree totally.

yep



i have gone like 3 months without masturbating before. after going that long without it and masturbate again I for sure noticed how much weaker it made me feel.


i would much rather do healthier activities like running, weight lifting, and stretching to relieve stress.

 

nah. have your girl give you blowjob and nut in her mouth or whatever then cuddle or eat her out or play with her tits or something for like 5min. or 10min. then you should be able to get hard again and penetrate her pussy. then you will be able to bang her for like 45min. before cumming.

 

couldn't draining me to much if I do it, then 20 minutes do it again..

 

just don't do quicky masturbation.

 

some men are able to sustain the energy loss more than others

all men are drained by ejaculation however

one of the primary reasons why a man's health and sex drive decline as he ages is excessive ejaculation

 

Cite cources based on reality for this please. I have heard the opposite can be true.

 

I had 2 Amish aunts who believed they would get sick if they washed their hair more than once a month. They would only wash it when the moon was in a shrinking phase, not a growing phase. Washing it while the moon was in the growing phase made it frizzy.

In my opinion, they were full of shit.

 

ya..it drains me of about a tablespoon every time

 

I usually roll over and fall asleep

 

If I rolled over and fell asleep at work, I would get fired. It's in our handbook; sleeping, or the appearance of sleeping, is grounds for dismissal.

 

At the point of ejaculation hormones are released into the body which cause the body to relax.

Explained in more detail here: http://drgeo.com/why-do-men-want-to-sleep-after-sex