What is the truth about looking at breasts/cleavage?

I don't notice this kind of thing, either, but it's probably because I have a hard time looking people in the eye when I talk to them if I'm not super super comfortable with them. Eye contact feels tooooo intimate for me. It's a problem. lol

 

Do you mean that they are staring at your boobs the entire time they are talking to you non stop? Of course you would like that because that's sounds like sexual harassment OR do you mean something less intrusive?

Are you saying that its just when they do that that you you get "somewhat irritated"?

So other than guys looking at your breasts the entire time when they are talking to you are you basically okay with guys looking at your breasts?

Do you kind of see how your answer leaves out a lot of important information? Can you explain both what you like and don't like about guys looking at your breasts?

 

If a guy comes up looking me in the breast he doesn't stand a chance with me. I prefer not to be looked at in the breast at all. It kinda feels like I have something dirty on my shirt.

Also, I can't stand it when a man is with a woman and makes a comment that makes her jealous. I get really tired of jealous women getting mad at me because their old man made a comment about my breast.

Maybe if I am in bed with you but other wise I prefer eye contact. If someone is having a conversation with me there better be eye contact if they expect me to stay engaged.

I know It probably seems prudish of me. I have been a stripper I made good money at it but I never liked tittiie men. I like ass and leg men myself.

 

Well that's surprising. The first post you made it seem like the problem for you was staring and in the second post it's like you don't like to be looked at at all. But that may be in part because you don't like "titty men".

I also think that in a discussion of the "whole truth" which is what I emphasized in my OP that a distinction between wearing cleavage vs. not wearing cleavage would be important.

Anyways it would help if I got the opinions of a lot of different women since obviously just one person isn't going to be representative of a population. Can any other women give me their opinions. Thank you.

 

Personally I like a man right in the middle, a man red-blooded enough to notice and enjoy, but not say anything crude or disgusting- it should be a celebration of a woman's body, not an opportunity to degrade or humiliate or inimidate her with it!

 

Thank you. This is a very honest answer. I always felt that their is nothing about a woman's body that they should be ashamed of. It's hard for me to even imagine how you could ever regard a woman's body as something crude or vulgar. It's not at all it's actually very extraordinary

If more women shared their opinion that would be awesome. Thank you.

 

I dont know but it feels like tempting. Satisfying your personal feelings without doing touching it?

 

I would really like to hear more answers from women, the more answers that I receive that are well thought out the more clarity I will have on this subject.

 

If cleavage is presented, exposed then the exposer wants you to see --- this is not bad, its what they want.
I travel on public transportation and live closer to the Loop therefore most every morning I am standing - a mere look down usually produces cleavage; a beautiful picture of art

 

I'm weird, and I find it slightly flattering..

 

Okay. Cleavage does seem like it's generally an invitation to look. But how certain is that invitation? And to what degree is looking accepted in that case. In the work place a woman could show cleavage but there are sexual harassment laws where sexual harassment is defined by whether a woman is offended by your behavior or not. In that case how do you know what is the generally expected way to behave?

 

If I notice then I won't care unless you're doing nothing but staring at my boobs and being all creepy about it. Moderation is key lol

 

Are you referring to when you wear cleavage or when you aren't wearing cleavage or in either case?

 

Either case. My cleavage is very rarely ''all out'' though.

 

Well that's good to know. Do you think that you send signals to men that its okay to look even when you aren't wearing cleavage?

 

Women, do you think that "Dear Abby" is just plain wrong?

 

My sentiments exactly.

 

Well, okay but are you saying that they are asking to be stared at? MAMA do you wear clothes like that?

 

Its more sexy when women are more covered up then exposed even through my eyes are still drawn to that area

 

That's why I am asking about both breast (covered) and cleavage. A lot of people are not specifying in their answers whether they mean to refer to cleavage or not cleavage.

People, please specify if your talking about cleavage or covered breasts.

Mystery is always sexy.