What's the right way to approach someone u like on a nude beach?

Discussion in 'Nudism, Naturism' started by darkdrums, Jul 17, 2011.

  1. darkdrums

    darkdrums Member

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    hello everyone...i just have a question among others in my mind. I saw the other day at the beach a woman that i really liked her ( not in any pervert way) and id like to go talk to her... In general i try to be friendly with the people on the nude beaches, cause im kinda new in all of this and i dont wont to be misunderstood... The thing is that sometimes i have erections which as i read here too are normal nad i was really relieved...but im afraid that if im to go talk to her ill get an erection while i talk to her ( it has happened something similar once..a girl came to talk to me and after 5 minutes of chat i had an erection)....so i d like to hear ur opinions about what ud think it would be the right way to approach a lady without making u look as a pervert! thank u in advance!
     
  2. McLeodGanja

    McLeodGanja Banned

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    I was on the beach in India once practising poi. This Israeli girl came up and started talking to me, giving me advice on my technique. She was topless and I totally couldn't stop looking at her tits, which I think she noticed. Very not cool. Don't do that, or wear sunglasses...
     
  3. darkdrums

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    i see but i wasnt talking about staring certain body parts or anything like that....i meant that im a fraid that if i just talk to someone i like ill get an erection....
     
  4. McLeodGanja

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    Have a wank before you talk to her, that should offer you a window of limp opportunity to ingratiate yourself to her.
     
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  5. Amontillado

    Amontillado Member extraordinaire Lifetime Supporter

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    What's the right way to approach someone u like on a nude beach, to make sure that they have a miserable day and never go there again?
     
  6. Jason Lee

    Jason Lee Banned

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    eye to eye contact is important if the lady or woman is naked or nude you could pretend she is wearing clothes that way you won't be inclined to look at her breasts and vagina for 5 minutes you won't be viewed as a pervert unless you're playing with, pointing at, touching it to get her attention
     
  7. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    not cock in hand.
     
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  8. darkdrums

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    well i surely not talking about something as pervy as talking to her while holding my cock!!! i hadnt anything like that on my mind... i was just talking about a "not wanted" erection! :p
     
  9. Jason Lee

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    if you approached a naked woman on a nude/nudist beach then you covered up your erection she might question what your motives were
     
  10. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Attraction tends to dic-tate one's physical reaction
    Eye to eye contact is good, but attraction is not just visual is it?
    Be honest and let things happen naturally - Im sure that it could only been seen as a compliment (?)
     
  11. lambi420

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    Well is the water cold? Go for a swim before talking to her! If u start getting too happy while ur talking to her, just ask her to go for another swim. Or think of something else, like immagine your parents beng there, that should be a real downer right there lol
     
  12. Crayola

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    thats the only good advice i can think of as well. but ehh im not a guy and i dont do nudism, so maybe there are wicked tricks to avoid such issues that im unaware of.

    hahaha
     
  13. Jason Lee

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    the best way to approach somebody on a nudist beach is when your penis is erect and/or hard
     
  14. freecospirit

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    Another "Jason Lee" wind up - when will this childish troll learn that generally a nude beach is not a place to "chat up" members of the opposite sex. The man's mentality is beyond belief.
     
  15. matti4love

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    I know it is really difficult to chat someone up when they are nude but go for eye contact and try to relax. Maybe imagine them in stockings and suspenders LOL
     
  16. free30

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    ...LOL.... always comes back round to jason and his hard on!
     
  17. Dude111

    Dude111 An Awesome Dude

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    I can wholeheartidly agree!!
     
  18. junglejack

    junglejack aiko aiko

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    show her attention, without being at attention:eek:
     
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    Wouldn't the right answer be "Just like you would approach anyone you like on a textile beach"?
     

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