He's mad because I won't have sex with him

Never mind.

 

Anyone can have Sex, a release of physical exertion - Making love is far different, it is I believe, a coming together of mutually acceptance that the most intimate of emotions can be shared - for the equally important facet of mental stimulas - if one out of the two is not willing then there will be a lack of fulfillment of union
And a 'friend' would understand so obivuosly not a good one
Seems to me better to find out now and realise disappointment than give in and experience heartache
- stick to your inner convictions methinks

 

Fuck that dude.. < I dont mean by having sex.. he sounds like an asshole that's using you, because you are young... tell him to fuck someone his own age, like wise you should seek someone your age too.. you have no idea what baggage these old dogs are carrying around.

 

If we said you should have sex with him, would that help?

But yeah, he obviously wants to use you.

 

great sig...:sunny:

 

He wasn't much of a friend if that is how he feels. Dump him and don't look back, find someone new who you wnat to make love to when you are ready.

 

how was blowing him not leading him on?

 

you should not be gay.


a lot of gay people have been lored in by very bad, evil people who only wanted to manipulate you,


you are walking the wrong path.



straighten up, and stop your wrong ways young brother.

 

u don't owe him anything, so dont blame yourself for ruining the friendship or whatever. if anyone ruined what u guys had, it was him.
and if u have some pride, leave him. u can have sex with the people u choose to have sex with

 

You did the right thing in the end, to hell with him if he's mad. Though I do think that you did lead him on. Just because you told him as soon as you changed your mind doesn't mean you didn't lead him on. You orginally made him think that maybe you would and you gave him oral a few times, that made him beleive that ya were gonna fuck him.

That's the brakes though and you don't owe him a thing so don't worry about it.

 

Once you perform oral sex on someone, it's a known rule that you have to have sex with them. After they have sex with you, they own your body. I think it's in the constitution. I wouldn't post this info on a public forum where cops might read it, you could go to prison. I mean really. Are young adults that stupid nowadays?

I think the reason he is so mad is because he has such a poor personality that it is difficult for him to get girls to have sex with him. After spending all that money on dinner, wine, fine jewelry, and anal lube he thinks you owe him your body. The idea of you having control of your own body is obviously foreign to him. I say if you can get away with dumping him without getting arrested for it, you are probably much better off. Whatever you do, don't let him find the number for the sex police or you will be in big trouble.

 

Ditch him and move on.

 

what happened?

 

Locked due to OP edit..