New to the world of sex. Is this normal?

I've been sexually active for only a few months and I'm still discovering things with my boyfriend and such but there's a few things I'm not sure are normal about me and our sex life. Just looking for advice and to see if anyone else experiences these things. (Few different subjects so I thought best to post it in here)

Okay so first, pretty much every time we have sex, by the time I'm on maybe my fourth orgasm I cum. A lot. A couple of days ago we were having sex and I had a really big orgasm and after my boyfriend came and pulled out there was a heap of white liquid on the bed, it wasn't from him, his was all in the condom, this happens pretty much every time we have sex...I didn't realize this happened to women. Is this normal or not?

I'm also curious about vagina size...because mine seems to be quite large. I'm not a large person, I weigh about 125lbs but it seems to bulge out a bit. From what I've seen women's vaginas are really small and flat. I'm getting a little self conscious... Again, is this normal or not?

Another question. Do women think about sex a lot? I find myself thinking about sex a lot now I've become sexually active and my mum always told me that it's only men who think about sex. I think about sex every night and I would have sex every day if I could (boyfriend is usually tired from work) and if I don't have sex I end up getting really frustrated. I get over this after an hour or so but is it normal for a woman to think about and want sex this much?

I don't always orgasm when having sex, it doesn't bother me, I enjoy myself either way and I love the feeling either way. From what I've read women seem to dislike sex if they don't orgasm. Is this true? I mean I love sex, I'm satisfied with or without having an orgasm, not having one doesn't bother me at all, I mean it's great when I do but it's just as good without it. Anyone else find this?

Last thing, last night I actually put my hands on my boyfriend's penis for the first time, I don't know why it's taken me this long, I guess it sort of freaked me out to be honest. I didn't realize how nice they are to touch. I didn't know he'd react the way he did either, he started breathing heavy and moaning which just got me hotter and seeing him react like that made me want to go down on him, something else I've never tried. I'm a little worried I'll do something wrong or hurt him or something, should I just go for it? I dunno.

Thanks for any advice anyone can give me. I appreciate it.

 

Don't worry too much about 'getting things right'. To often it is easy to get hung up on what is right and wrong.
Physically, positionally and practicalities too often can lead to to a degree of discomfort (of feelings).
Sex is at it's best when one ditches the feelings of structured conventionalism and instead embraces the spiritual freedom of expression
Enjoy the experience and remember the phrase

"Be Good, Be Safe = Be Happy"

 

It is normal for a girl to cum when she orgasms.
It is normal to think about sex more after you start having it. The opposite happened to me though. I did not think about sex as much after I started having it.
It's normal to not care if you don't have an orgasm or not.
If you want to give him oral, you should try it.

 

Sex is one of the most basic human acts. Just enjoy it and try not to worry so much!

 

Female ejaculation is not incredibly common but it is HOT! Your boyfriend is lucky! It easily comes under the "normal" label.

Vaginas come in all sorts of sizes. I like a nice big, bulgy one. Once again, your boyfriend is lucky.

The fact that only men think about sex is a myth that died several years ago. Women are just as likely and just as welcome to think about sex.

Once again, your boyfriend is very lucky to have a girl who is satisfied without an orgasm.

If you go down on him: keep your lips soft; be mindful of your teeth and don't suck super hard! He may like it different to that, though. Really you should find out how he likes it, there's no harm in asking. In fact, if you ask in the right way at the right time then it could be a huge turn on. You would get more sex when he is tired if you can get him nice and aroused with your mouth. Just don't let him cum and he'll soon be trying to stick it in you.

MMMmm I'll be thinking about nice plump juicy pussies producing ooze tonight!

 

I think you're very normal and your boyfriend is lucky to have you. In fact, I'd like to meet you myself!

 

Everything that you just described is totally and completely normal and it seems to me like you have a very healthy and lovely growing sex life. ENJOY IT! The last thing you want to do is stress out or be self conscious about one of the best more natural things that you and your boyfriend can enjoy together and do for each other.

 

LittleKitty said it right.
Take a shower with him so you're both fresh and lie on the bed with him and take it in your mouth. You'll know what he likes by the way he reacts, but rubbing your tongue underneath it's little 'chin' is for certain. Ask him to tell you when he's about to cum so you can take it in as far as you can and the swallow reaction will be automatic. Good luck.

 

You are normal and have nothing to worry about.

 

What exactly is normal? Where did you get your statistical data from?

You you are not normal. Do you think that qualifies you to explain what is normal and what is not?

In that case you will probably don't have one.

Now that I can subscribe to.

 

Hmmm, I wonder if he would breathe heavy and moan if you wrapped your lips around his manhood and fluttered your tongue right under the head of it? I think you might try that once and report back.

I think women who squirt when they have an orgasm are hot. My wife does not squirt or as you say "cum" when she has an orgasm. Most women don't, although I think it can be stimulated if the woman is open to it, according to a Red Tube video. The first time I saw a woman squirting on a video I had an orgasm without any other stimulation.

I hope this man is worthy of your attention, and will treat you like a good woman should be treated.

 

Ahhh yes cumming.

I tell ya I'm in of those gals that can squirt/cum whatever ya wanna call. All I know is that man it feels damn good!!!:angel:


As far as going down on him. When I 1st started I just went really slow, I even did the whip cream thing to make it "taste" better in my head. lol but that eventually stopped.

When ya get comfy doing it, get a mint like an Altoid. Pop that in your mouth and suck him too. Every now and then don't forget to blow on the tip of his penis, then cool minty feeling he will love.

 

Do you work for Altoid or something? Sheesh.

OP: Don't forget to get one finger nice and wet and slowly slip it up his anus whilst fellating him. At the very least give it a tickle or pull the hairs around the rim. Smear the grease of some recently fried bacon all over his member before you take him in your mouth, it will taste great! Better make sure there aren't any dogs around, though! They'll go right for it!

 

Ummmm no:blush5:


I just know that it is a strong mint............... I was just trying to make a suggestion.

 

Make a suggestion to buy some Altoids when you feel like a strong mint? Your extreme advertising slogans won't have any effect on us, return to the pit from whence you came, beast!

 

Really..........


Use any freakin mint ya want while going down on the guy I was simply just making a suggestion or a tip for oral........


Jeez

 

Oh, reverse psychology is it now? Trying to get me to buy your strong mints with subtle psychological approaches! I'm on to you.

 

blowjob and a polo. that's the dream.

 

Ok! Ok! Busted!! :coolgleamA:



Another trick I use on my hubby is taking a drink of "coke" and leaving some in your mouth then take him in as much as ya can. swish ya tongue around and let the bubbles fizzzzzzzzzz:Angel_anim:

 

ARGH I wish people would stop mentioning coke on these forums!!! It should be against the rules to even mention that evil stuff!!!!

If everyone stopped buying coke we could bring a huge, union-killing (and I mean geniunely murdering) corporation to its knees!!

Please please please people think! I should start a thread about this, actually.