I am 19 years old. If you met me, and found that you were interested in me, but I told you that I had sex with a 28 year old man, would you be okay with that and think that it's not a big deal? Or would you be creeped out and turned off?
Well it all depends you know. At first I would be turned off because that is a pretty big age difference. But if you were really something special, I'd not pay much mind to it. I would be cautious of people between those ages as they are usually immature compared to a 28 year old man. So if you enjoyed the maturity of the 28 year old man, then I'd say continue to set your sights a decade ahead of you. Different men are offended by different things, different men are turned off to different things. Even if WE give you answers that are relative to our personal mindset, it still wouldn't do anything for a guy you might find where you actually live. If online dating is your thing though, you've come to the right place...or wrong place pending your view on the subject. Just visit the personals. I would vote against anything you find on this site though, I speak from my own experiences. You've been warned either way. Hope this helps.
the sex with a 28-year-old i would consider a little unusual, but not at all important. the fact that you're telling me who you've had sex with just after we met would come off as a bit creepy and a turn off.
I wouldn't like it much. Makes you seem dumb, because typically, and I stress typically, relationships with large age-gaps are unhealthy ones.
QFT. There'd be a much larger age gap if I trued to pick up on you stevie19, but hearing all about your past bf's is what would really bother me.
I couldn't care less. 9 years is nothing, you are both young and energetic and it's in the past. Anyone can be attracted to anyone of any age, sex or looks. Honestly, I worry more about people who do care about stuff like this.