Hi I need help, I am suffering from sex adiction, I just can't get enough. I masturbate sometimes 3 times a day. Now in a secret relationship outside my marriage. If I cannot have sex with a women then I beat my meat, and this fixes me up for about 30 minutes, I then have to see a woman and I get horny again. This is serious, is there any help I can get ? apart from not looking at women. Thanks. Genuine replies only.
I can relate. To paraphrase Jack Nicholson`s words, sometimes, if I`m not rumbling around in bed with some chick I start having trouble breathing. If you want support from other people looking to change their behavior (and if you don`t mind the religious part of it), you might want to check out: http://www.sca-recovery.org/find.htm I`ve considered joining them myself. It was suggested in the book Ethical Slut, and it caught my attention because supposedly they let you define for yourself how you want to live your sex life. That is, if you want to keep that mistress on the side as I would, they`ll "let you."
I would suggest checking out the body shots thread. There is some good spanking material in there. I hope that helps.
Well it does sound normal. You just need to work on your impulse control or get your wife to start swinging with you, lol.
Just go to a normal counselor. I had to do that for similar reasons. They will definitely help you out. The thing is that there is a specific reason why you are obsessed by things like that, and they will help you find it out. Once you find out the reason for this obsession you will quickly feel this obsession get less, and with constant help things will get much better. God bless you mate, you’re ok!
