about a week and a half ago, i started a thread in the relationships forum about a girl i like named kristen. now though, shes having some problems. i didnt know about them til now. on wednesday night, se got really depressed and drank lots of alcohol. her brother walked in her room and found her laying in a pool of vomit. they rushed her to the hospital at about eleven pm. her blood alcohol level was .13 and she wasnt doing too good. now, she either has to go to an institution and get all drugged up or see her old psychologist. and shes probably not going to be at school for a while or answer her phone, so i cant talk to her. i havent talked to her yet, even though i talk to her every day. i dont know how to talk to her after shes been through so much, and i just hope she feels better. such wondeful people like herself shouldnt be sad. i like her and i care for her, and i feel her pain. i just dont know what to say to her.
just try to play it cool, only talk about the incident if she brings it up. she sounds seriously depressed, and doesnt need to be pushed. let her know that u are there for her if she needs anything, also let her know you arent going to pry. other than that, all you can do is be a true friend.. best of luck!