where are you my love?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by bc-05, May 29, 2011.

  1. bc-05

    bc-05 Guest

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    Ok, I'm not really sure how to ask this.. However, I'm wired in a different ways than most guys.. Infact, these days and age i know that pretty girls that drinks and love to have sex are the norm and its a cool thing..

    However, as with most guys I am attracted to pretty girls.. However, i am too interested in the traditional girls girl who has a simple really pretty natural look, that still holds the old traditional values of (family oriented, hard working, doesn't drink, cherishing their chastity yet could be naughty with their husband).. And do these kinds of girls exist?

    I was told by alot of people that clubs arent a good place to meet these kinds of girls.. Where could I meet them? Ppl say try church but everytime i went to church, i only see old granmas and or girls who try to tell themself theyre pretty when theyre really not.. So where exactly could i find the girl??

    I want one that looks like this and holds the same value, but have less brain damage.. Dont ask me why i dont go for her; because i did but she preferred to be with some ugly asian
    http://i54.tinypic.com/ws42vd.jpg
     
  2. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    If you hear your love calling you from the drain of a sink or a storm drain be careful... You could be having a nightmare after reading Stephen King's IT.
     
  3. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    I have highlighted part of your post that, it seems to me, probably means you are disqualified from hooking up with a "traditional" girl who has "family oriented" values.

    Judging others on their looks and race isn't cool, imho.

    If I've been too harsh, I apologise, but that's how I took your post.

    Treat all people on merit: race and looks are usually beyond their own control.
     
  4. JimiAllTheWay

    JimiAllTheWay Member

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    Why should it matter if he was Asian or not?? Anyway, clubs are definitely not the right place to meet people like this. You shouldn't go looking, if things are meant to be usually they find their way to you xD
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    no, but it is traditional..
     
  6. JimiAllTheWay

    JimiAllTheWay Member

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    Just because something is traditional should we do it? wife beating? piracy? telling inappropriate myths to scare babies? leaving corn out for vampires to count? welcome to 2011.
     
  7. PEACEFUL LIBRA

    PEACEFUL LIBRA DAMN RIGHT I'M A WEIRDO

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    put your ear to the sidewalk and close your eyes
     
  8. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    ugly asians do exist.
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    no, but it could potentially help if we're looking for a traditional girl.
     
  10. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    I do all those things, except the wives and babies aren't mine.



    To the op, sounds like a church chick might float your boat. Go to different churches for awhile, most have youth and/or singles events. And rather than simply summing up chicks by the way they look, try talking to them, they like that.
     
  11. Kasablanca

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    What kind of drug are you on? What is traditional and what not? Wife stay home cook clean take of kids. You work come home, eat, do what ever you want she do dishes, put kids to bed, you want sex, she give sex, you go to sleep, she clean up some more than sleep. Next day repeat? You made me ha ha ha
     
  12. emmy04

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    hey it still exists. you described me (doesn't drink, cherishing their chastity yet could be naughty with their husband) but as far as the rest (family oriented, hard working)...I'm family oriented but I dont want kids or a husband just yet and expect things to be equal...and what do you mean by hard working, do you want a girl or a donkey? haha but really ya, we exist :)
     
  13. emmy04

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    loooool
     
  14. Thekarthika

    Thekarthika Member

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    You cannot fill a cup which is already full.
     
  15. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    I think that there's on-line dating that caters to religious/ traditional values. try there?
     
  16. MINXVISHOUS2012

    MINXVISHOUS2012 Member

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    I hope you have found this girl you are looking for 0_o
    But honestly, you have to have her look the same as the girl who didn't want you? :\
    odd much
     
  17. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    ^While you have a point in telling him to not judge others based on race and looks, he could have just said the comment that was put in bold lettering because he's bitter that the girl he liked decided to go with someone else.
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    Advice to OP, well in addition sometimes you won't know until you've already dated several girls, and gotten to talk to them about their value in life and in a relationship versus what you are looking for.

    Also be aware that tradeoffs are always made, I don't know of any couples that every found the EXACT match they were looking for in theory in their head but reality was close and it works most of the time, and in reality sometimes it's better than the ideal in your head.
     

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