I was checking out the News Feed on my Facebook recently and felt pretty offended after having an argument with some guy I didn't even know. Followed by a girl's comment on there who completely agreed and declared that "Lesbians shouldn't be able to because they don't like dick. Why have a fake one?" In a sense, I feel that the views coming from people who think like this are... maybe trying to change a woman's sexual preference? That, or maybe they feel that they find irony or some form of deceit in our very own nature - be it intentional that we should feel guilty or ashamed? No. Why should we ever feel that way at all? We shouldn't. IMO, I find it ignorant of anyone who says that it is wrong for a woman to find pleasure within a substitute of a male reproductive organ, simply because it is in our nature to feel good; regardless it being a penis or dildo. In spite of all this being said, I am content with who I am. My unconditional, susceptibility for feminality will never change, and the idea that hopefully most fellow lesbians can agree.
Reading that statement made me really mad! That ignorant person is defeating nothing, except their own ability to think. From a lesbian BDSM point of view, often times a strap on is used on the sub, to establish a dominance over the sub. Also, some women simply love the feeling of feeling 'stretched', it is their body afterall, but this doesnt mean they must be sexually attracted to men, especially if experiencing penetration by men does absolutely nothing for them.
Its along the same lines of married/hetero men experimenting with dildos. Why should they be allowed to experiment with them but still be straight? Ignore that comment from that person...they obviously don't understand that homosexuality/bisexuality is more than sex...
Hah, that's just an idiotic thing to say. It makes me think of a bunch of kooks gathering around to petition God that he should change the laws of physics so that lesbians can't stick things inside of their vaginas.
People who say these sorts of things are just so far away from the realm of reality that they should not be taken seriously even for a second. Acknowledging them at all is giving their ideas way more attention than they deserve already.
I've heard this line so many times. It's kinda funny when you think of it. Why anyone would get their feathers ruffled over it is beyond me. It's not as if the dildo-police are going to come to your door and take away your toys.
I'm just going to throw something out there - I think this is hilarious. Dont get me wrong, lesbians can use all the dildos the want IMO, but this just make me laught thats all.
There should be a tax on stupidity. The longer I live the more I realize common sense really isn't all that common. Straight people use dildos too are you going to tell them they made their choice so live with it. Facebook is filled with all kinds of interesting viewpoints that people are entitled to have. You could always say don't force your heterosexuality on me.