Hook up with a stranger

Hi all, first post here.

I have a thing for older women (Im 22). A lot of times at the gas station or the grocery store there are a lot of older women who are attractive. Sometimes much older.

A few of them have began small talk with me, but nothing beyond that.

I'm sure this is probably very unrealistic, but I want to go home with 1 of them them/take them home and hook up with them. I don't know what the appeal is, I just do.

And its only older women. Maybe I think they don't get much sex or something.

Anyone have any experiences/suggestions? I almost made a comment to an older woman about her ass one time, but I chickened out.

I'm probably crazy, but I thought Id post this anyways.

 

Start w/ a smile and a hello.
Their reaction will tell you much.

And that first step might give you the confidence to take the next step.

What's worked for me in the past,
A lingering look and then a quick compliment.
Makes them wonder what you're looking at and then the compliment makes them feel at ease.

Make sure the compliment isn't something sexual.
Comment on the dress, her hair. You can even say she looks familiar, does she work at so and so place. Don't say mcdonlads or something. Maybe your doctor's office or the University you go to.

 

Thanks. Would I have to start a relationship first? Its not like I can just walk up to a woman and go home with them....or can i?

 

There's an older woman...even older than me that I wanna fuck in the library I go in. One day I concoted a blatant excuse to try and meet her online, I won't explain what it was, but a/w I sorta lost my nerve and said 'it does't matter' and walked off. I still see her and I've not really got any bad vibes and I think like you that older women don't get much sex and even if they know a younger guy is probably desperate and just wants them for sex I think there's a heck of a lot of women in their 40's and 50's that would be fairly easy to get into bed in the right circumstances. Basically you've just gotta get talking then drop a hint and I bet it won't be long before they drop their knickers.

 

Another reason married middle aged women are easy to get into bed is they know their husbands fuck hookers so they don't feel like their being unfaithful.

 

There's gonna be all kinds.
Some will have no interest at all other than friendly banter.
Some may be looking for a relationship.
But, it will all start w/ that initial show of interest, the smile.

 

I usually can get to friendly banter, any suggestions on how to advance from there?

 

When you get to the point of being able to sit and speak w/ them, get to know them, etc...
Flirt.
Throw in some sexual innuendo.

If the banter only goes so far as the grocery check out line.
Ask her if she would want to get some coffee w/ you or lunch.
Something casual.

 

examples?

 

older women are totally game for it and if you wanna lick their * then they'll just love it. The main thing is to set it up in a way they're comfortable with. Once you've got 'em in a room they'll let you do anything to 'em...esp. up the arse.

 

Good advice, thanks.

Sometimes I just want to say, "wanna have sex?" Lol

 

How do I get them alone without being explicit?

 

well...
If she ignores you, she's not interested.
If she tells you to eff off, she's not interested.

On the other hand if she smiles back, I'd say go ahead try and start a conversation.

 

I've done that and it's never worked.
But, when I've done that after spending some time together it's had a better response.

 

You can say just that.
She might take it in a sexual way but you can let her know that you ment alone as in just you and her. Again, as in coffee or lunch or something. It's summer and there are all kinds of outdoor events taking place.

Of course if all you want to do is bang her right now, then ignore my advice.
My advice is more about at the very least getting a FWB.

 

Its really good advice, thanks.

Have you hooked up w an older woman before?

 

ahhh yes. Twice. And a 3rd if you count the one who was 4 years older than me.
It was quite a few years ago.

 

How do I openly flirt without being rude? Im better at doing it subtly...

 

Anyone?

 

I wouldn't be so subtle that your intentions are not clear. Tell her she is sexy, she will know what time it is, and it's just a compliment so you didn't really do anything fucked up. Rejection is part of the hunt, don't fear it. She will respect your huge brass balls even if she is not interested.