how do u guys go along just wannting sex with a chick

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by jmt, May 6, 2011.

  1. Death

    Death Grim Reaper Lifetime Supporter

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    yup. pretty open and shut case.. !!
     
  2. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    I had a FWB back in my single days. I was cool with it but I didn't like hearing about him f*cking other girls or wanting to f*ck other girls. That was mostly because he came like a firehose so he could pretty much only f*ck once a day.
     
  3. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    So, jmt. You think that she may like you, but you're not sure. And in the case that she does like you, and you pursue sex with her, you want her to know that you do not want more. Is this correct?

    If so, just ask her out one time, suggest that you should go out for drinks. Then, later hint that you would like to "hook up" with her. If she declines, she either doesn't like you, or doesn't just want sex. Problem solved. End of story.

    If she accepts your offer, make it clear that you're not looking for anything serious. If she declines then; problem solved. End of story. If she accepts, she knows that you're not looking for anything more. Problem solved.
     
  4. deadboy.

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    I wouldn't do it. You fuck her while shes attracted to you and ends up clingy...she'll be saying she's pregnant with your kid :) Used to happen to me all the time. Then I was like, "nope."
     
  5. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    why do you have to tell them? just go in, fuck them and get out. anybody can do the math on not hearing from the other person after that. unless you want a long-term fuck buddy.....
     
  6. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    oh yes.

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  7. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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  8. Geechee

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    pretty much
     
  9. Aponymous

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    Be straight w/ her.
    Let her know what you want.

    Some things to be aware of when playing this FWB game.
    Often, one person or the other winds up wanting more so be aware of your feelings and her actions. I say her actions in case she's sayin one thing but behavin another way.

    Be straight about whether you want it as a one shot thing or full blown FWB. Remember, either way you both have every right of wanting more but not of expecting more.

    People's emotions are still involved. It's usually not a good idea to be talkin bout other chicks you bangin. I've seen idiots do that and then say well we're FWB we don't owe each other anything so I can talk bout who I banged last night. Yeah you can, it's just bot bein a very good friend when you do that. Now if you're both good w/ it, then it's ok.
     
  10. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Good man!
    Honesty is more than not lying, its dispelling misconceptions. It includes not taking advantage of another's self-delusions.
     

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