first time having sex with a best friend

so i went to a concert with my bestfriend saturday night, we drank a bit and what not ,nothing outta the ordinary, but we came back to my house after again no biggie but, when it came time to go to sleep well were laying there next thing i know, i had the urge to kiss her idk why but i did, so i did and one thing led to another, and well it was amazing!!! hands down the best sex i ever had.

i mean its weird though because we drink on weekends regularly always with each other , we have talked about us hooking up and kinda laughed at it even dating because every one thinks we do but we dont. we even try to help each other hook up with someone, although having a close friend of the opposite sex is often a turn off.., but anyway i felt the need to tell someone becuase it was actually really exciting and i dont wanna go tell other friends and ruin it, she even did somethings i never expected.. when you think you know someone for almost your whole life then you have sex with them and are like wow!!! and her sex voice is nothing like her normal voice is just sooooo hot!!


sorry for the long post, just felt like i needed to get it out there

thanks any advice on keeping it going its appriecated

 

Sometimes sex with friends - a fuck buddy - can be a blessing in disguise.

 

iand its not i have trouble keeping women around, just being the best friend idk how she feels about it and not sure if to bring it up would make the situation better or she might say never again or if we talk about it ruin our friendship, i know with her if there is an issue shed rather just ignore it and your better off

 

well i dont know if she thinks its more than that, just that, or it just happened and shouldnt have. i mean im fine with any of them shes obviously my best friend so if its more its pretty ok i mean i wouldnt object really, we just never tried to work it that way, if its just fuck buddies cool too i can deal, if it shouldnt have happend ok i guess hard for me not to want it again but not worth losing a friendship over if she doesnt

 

Your best bet then is to talk about it with her, and see how she feels about it all.
If collectively, you think that it's best to remain best friends, then go with that option - but alternatively, if you think it's worth a shot to go further, without damaging the friendship, then go with that too.

I know the feeling.

One of my best friends, also a girl - she was bawling her eyes out one night for a reason that now escapes me, and I just happened to be at her house at the time.
Obviously, they confide in you, and you do what you can for them, so I was there, and hugged her, and told her that everything would be alright.

After a few hours, as she stopped crying - she sat on top of me, and it all started with that kiss. It went on from there, and the rest is history.

We made the decision to date, to see how it would go, but that is no more - not that it didn't work, but it was clear that it was either dating and lose the friendship, or the friendship.

It varies from case to case though, and I'm sure that you'll come up with the decision that is best for the both of you.

It's all about what you both feel comfortable with really.

 

thanks, the answer i was actually looking for, this was more of a goodtime thing, but i see where your coming from, my only problem with dating her is i have a problem telling gf's everything, not that i cheat or anything but ya know, and her i tell everything and she usually gets a kick out of some how, like the things i say to random girls and what not, just dont want that to be a potential issue, but im sure she will weigh that out after all she is a girl in her 6th yr of college trying to get her DR. and has common sense, go figure alwasy thought those two dont go together

 

As I said, ask her, and see what she thinks.

If she believes that it's worth a shot, then go with that - but make that on the proviso that you have friends as the fallback option in case something goes awry.

Or, if she chooses to keep it the way it is, then ask her how she feels about having had sex with her, when you were both drunk - and whether she wants to continue in that sense, or if that was a one-off.

 

i THINK YOU'D BETTER LOOK AT THE WAY YOUR

 

I think you'd better rethink how you're looking at this. The best wives are the ones that are your best friend too. Anyother way, is not good.

 

just be really careful, honest and open. u dont want to lose your friendship!

 

:dupe:Best Friend + Good Sex = WTF? Marry that girl!!! lol

But seriously, from reading your posts, it seems to me that your preference would be to keep going and see if something develops. If she's not into talking about stuff, then maybe you could say something to her like, "damn, the other night was HOT", and see if she says anything back. If not......well then don't bring it up again, and even that doesn't mean she's not into you, she just may be having the same thoughts as you are about this and doesn't want to rock the boat. Maybe you could try and arrange another situation where there's potential for it to happen again and go for it.

 

I only have sex with my "fringe" friends. The ones you say you got stuff to do when they wanna hang out, but you really don't.

 

been in the exact situation and im married to the guy now. i say go for it, all or nothing! nothing better than being married to your best friend.

 

She could be youre one, man. Don't look at her as your best friend but dont look at her as your girlfriend. She's a great friend that you shared something with and it seems like youd like to maybe try and move it up just a step. Talk to her about it and see if she would like to do that too...you might end up spending the rest of your life with her bro.

 

godd i had sex with my best guy friend when i was really drunk. the weird part was i bearly remember. i mean i did remember but not too clearly. and when it happened he was completly sober. we dont talk much anymore.

 

The ideal thing to do would be to marry someone you can't stand, you know, someone you can fight with all the time. Then you could have this "friend" on the side, and whenever your wife kicks you out of the house you could go have sex with your "friend".