Does this really happen? I asked my wife of 13 years a few weeks ago 2 questions. 1. Have you ever masturbated about me? and 2. What is your deepest darkest kinkiest fantasy. Needless to say I got the runaround. "IS THAT ALL YOU THINK ABOUT? NO I NEVER MASTURBATE ABOUT YOU AND I DON'T FANTASIZE!" REALLY? Pretty much everytime I masturbate it's about my wife. I don't understand it.:cuss:
Did you ask her what she does masterbate about, good way to see what turns her on at the momement. And how often she does it .,,
Some people have low sex drives and don't fantasize. Some women don't fantasize in the same way that men fantasize It happens.
Actually, in all the years that we've been married I've never seen or caught her masturbating. She's kind of non-sexual unless she is in the mood.
Could be you caught her off guard with the question. She might be embarrassed, or she might not do the whole "story fantasy" but and rather when she masturbates its more a series of sensory bits: scents, memories of sensations, etc.
She's either repressed or you simply haven't caught her. It's unlikely she is asexual if she enjoys sex with you sometimes.
I don't really fantasize while masturbating. I watch porn, then go at it. I'm only thinking about cumming lol
by all means I KNOW that she does not masturbate. she thinks cunninglus is disgusting,lol. she's a crazy woman ithink.
More than likely the exact opposite is true, probably her favourite thing, but gets it in her head if she lets you do it too much will loose control. I know its retarded, withhold the fun so she gets a new dishwasher, so basically ends up choosing a new kitchen appliance over all the possible orgasms......but it does work, and you guys fall for it....unfortunately it also has to tendency to make them all go cuckhoo. Unless she's been getting it elsewhere the whole time, thus you'll end up knowing if she has been getting it elsewhere the whole time based on whether she ends up cuckhoo or not You have no idea. Running around trying to pretend she doesnt like sex or certain sex acts is fair enough, not everyones cup of tea. But running around trying to pretend she doesnt like orgasms....well So instead of telling your mates "My wife doesnt like sex" and watching them grumble under their beers, phrase it different, "My wife doesnt like orgasms" and watch them laugh at you
Is sex for you just about sticking it in the hole and chasing your own gratification? You are asking her to discuss her most private thoughts and acts. If you are not in a totally honest and open relationship, then she ain't gonna share. Same as if you are not giving her the respect and attention in bed, then she is hardly going to want to mix it up with you, rather just lie back and put up with 30 seconds of you humping away. Maybe take a look at what you are doing to make your wife act the way that she does??
