I LOVE head, way more than regular sex, I don't know there is something about it. The smooth slobbering, the feeling of the tounge, sucking, sounds of lips smacking, just penetrating a girls beautiful face... anyone else like head better? A thing is, every girl I've had so far, cannot complete. I always have to masturbate myself while they suck. I want a girl to actually suck me off all the way, that would be amazing! On the contrary, I have never really like eating a girl out, so far. I will do it for the sake of the relationship but I have not fully enjoyed being on the blessing side yet. weirdness.
Maybe they (your girls) think the same way and that's why you won't come when they suck you. Ever thought putting some passion when you eat them? Maybe they will suck you better, and you'll all be better off
Do you have a hard time cumming normally? (ie: during sex or while masterbating alone) Cause then maybe its more of an issue of you trying to figure out what will push you over the edge, which you can then convey to your girl. My bf used to have a really hard time cumming - he was so used to his own touch that nothing I did really helped, not even sex...but we worked on it together and its gotten MUCH better since we first met. He still cant cum from oral alone, but Im always trying to find new ways to please him, and we keep looking for that move that will send him spiraling into that crazy orgasm we both know he will someday reach.
Of course, great head works too....so make sure the girl knows what really turns you on, then let her at it
When I am attracted to a girl, I can cum with no problem, but when I've had sex with girls I didn't really feel a connection with, it was pretty much just like masturbating. I won't have sex with someone I don't feel a connection to for that reason, along with not wanting someone to get attached to me, when I don't feel the same way. If I'm on opiates I have a hard time cumming. I will eat pussy, I have. Just never had anyone fully get me off.
I love it when I fuck my wife's pussy and her asshole. But, for me, nothing beats a good BJ. I often have problems cumming while fucking. But, after my wife cums several times, she'll usually finish me off with her mouth and hands. It's heavenly when she sucks my cock, licks my balls, rims my ass...especially right after I finish fucking her ass. ATM always does me in quick...
I also do like oral sex. it's provide me very nice pleasure. i also suggest another guys commit to this.