Whats wrong with me ? Impotent

Hi when I masturbate, I can get a rock hard erection, however when I do it with my partner, or another women, I cannot maintain an erection.
I have tried Viagra, and Cialis, but both don't work for me, I can get an erection but can't keep it up.

What should I do, as I am too shy to talk about it.
Thanks

 

When I was younger I had a kind of that problem with a girls! After that continue for more than one month I went to a doctor with exactly that profile, that means a doctor about men genetic issues!
Also the condition to go to that doctor and talk about that problem was exactly to be a problem, that means there should be a wile of time (two, three or more weeks) with that and so the doctor may considerate there is or may be a problem.
I made some special blood examinations to check the testosterone level or something like that, and in my case I was health, and I think stress made me crazy that time! Everything change to normal a few later, without any medicine or other cure but I think talking to that doctor was good for me, also my that time g/f come with me to the doctor the first time I went there, that made me feel some better!
You should not feel shy talking about to a doctor, I think it would be much more better than talk about in a forum!

 

Well, since you're other thread is about wanking it all the time, maybe you've milked it dry and rubbed it raw by the time you get to your old lady.

 

It could be a psychological thing. It could be that you have gotten "too used to yourself" and the sensation is different when you are with your partner, so you are less aroused.

And one more question: When you are with your partner are you under the influence of any drugs or alcohol? I leaned recently, pretty much any drug or alcohol kills the sensation for me. 2-3 beers, allergy meds...

 

It could be lack of iron in your blood or psychological trauma or you haven't found the right babe. Ask your doctor to do an iron test on you. The other guys could also be right. Are you taking high blood pressure medication?