Been awhile problem

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Mike31, Jun 12, 2011.

  1. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    This is serious. Ive never been shy and was always good and natural around the opposite sex. After school and all I find it hard to meet females. I find myself at 31 and watching all of my friends getting married and it seems no one is left. Its actually been so long for me I am lacking confidence and becoming shy. This cant be normal. Im having girls that arent my type wanting one night stand but im not sure I want to do that and Im a bit nervous now about it. I seem to be attracting married women and they tell me they hate their husbands and want me, I dont feel this is right and im worried for my mental sake.
     
  2. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    screw around with the ones who aren't your type, get your confidence back

    you said yourself, they only wanted one night stands.
     
  3. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    Im thinking of this, but is it worth getting an std or knocking a womann up who already has kids? When I say its been awhile I mean its been awhile.
     
  4. sunfighter

    sunfighter Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Well, of course, condoms are the answer to that.
     
  5. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    I dont even know what condom to get. I always did it unprotected or the chick had them with her, I know a bit strange.
     
  6. broony

    broony Banned

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    Not every condom fits the same. Go out and find one that works, then get down to business.
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  7. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    Whats strange is my flacid size sometimes isnt that large but my erection is pretty big. Most condoms break on me because once I get going the vessels get huge and it blows them.
     
  8. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    Ok, if you are a troll, you are my favorite :)

    You are saying you attract swingers and you don't know how to meet women, right?

    I am taking it as an honest question.

    You must have sex appeal the way people are wanting your sex.
    What are your INTERESTS?

    I confess, I have not tried to 'meet people' because I have not been single since I was a kid.

    My friends are all my favorite people in the world and I have seen a couplefew of them slip into serious self-doubt when trying to meet people.

    Do you find yourself interested in any women you meet?

    Ask yourself how you would meet ANYONE at all, like a new bestie or a new hobby-partner.

    How do you meet people?
     
  9. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    Well, Ill be honest. Im handsome and I workout everyday. Im pretty ripped. i had trouble uploading pics. Its hard to meet people here. Its depressing because I feel I have a lot to offer a female but theres no one. I dont want to bang other guys wives, I want my own. The thing is its a really racist country small town and I have a really foreign last name. When I was younger I even had girls tell me they liked me but their parents would never let them date a pollock, lol sounds weird but its true.
     
  10. tuesdaystar

    tuesdaystar Interneter

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    i could have summarised that list of questions with:

    Get out and meet NEW people.

    Get a little bit out of your SCENE whatever it may be.

    Talk to people you are attracted to.

    It's all quite random how people end up coupling, but only you can do it for yourself.

    In the 9 years of my relationship I have only been intensely attracted to one other man so if you are that guy for other women, it's a shame you are not attracted to them because you never know how good the sex might be ;)
     
  11. Mike31

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    Its been so long for me Im scared to have sex, its quite sad. Its causing me to become violent and frusterated. I end up giving up if any other guy attempts to become competition. I dont know why because Im 6-1 200 and strong and Im pretty large. Its just been so long and Im alone. I really hate my life and think of death a lot.
     
  12. tuesdaystar

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    I can't tell you how to meet women, if they are available and attracted to you it will be natural
    I wonder if women have thought, where'd he go? When you've backed off from competition.

    Just keep getting out and meeting people, someone you are into will be into you.

    The important thing is to be yourself and embrace what makes you happy...

    Or if you just want a trophy, try REAL HARD to get rich :D
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you put the condom on AFTER you have an erection.
     
  14. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    My erection gets larger and larger after I start to have sex
     
  15. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    You've just been out of the game for so long you're discouraged. But really there's nothing to be afraid of. Don't put yourself in a box, the world is waiting. I'd stay away from the married women. Karma baby, one day you'll be married and some wise guy will get the same idea.
    Try maxums btw.
     
  16. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Not buying into the fact that you can't find a condom to fit. You will find the right girl when you least expect it!
     
  17. broony

    broony Banned

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    If you can't find a condom that fits you, i don't believe you'll find a girl that can take it. You talk like your cock is 20inches by 9.

    Watch these morons with a basic over the counter condom stretch it.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e2oBmo800w"]YouTube - ‪How far will a condom stretch?‬‏
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t4I22YuhrE4"]YouTube - ‪condom stretch 5 feet‬‏
     
  18. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    that's exactly what he's afraid of...
     
  19. Mike31

    Mike31 Member

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    Ive never even had a girlfriend, I doubt Im getting married.
     
  20. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Or, maybe he won`t. And some wise guy will still get that idea, and bam, he`s looking even more like an asshole passing that up when he had the chance. :(
     

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