I'm starting to talk to this guy who claims to be bisexual. we are getting prettty serious but a lot of his tendencies bug me. his friends are all straight guys and they do stupid stuff. I consider myself to be more gay than bisexual, so a lot of what he does bothers me. I just can't shake the feeling that he's secretly gay, and is just too proud to admit it. is this common to feel this way? how can I truly understand. his sexuality without beibg overbearing?
A lot of gay men seem to feel this way about bi men. But what are your reasons for doubting his bi-ness? What is it that he "does" that bothers you? Bisexuality isn't all that difficult to understand. There are different things that are attractive about men and women that one sex alone can't offer by the very nature of what they are.
