Finding a second female for a 3some...

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by whythehechnot?, Jun 7, 2011.

  1. whythehechnot?

    whythehechnot? Guest

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    Ive had fantasies and "dirty talked" about a threesome with myself, another woman and a guy but THIS guy really wants to make it happen! I have many openly lesbian friends and they regularly kid me about "coming to their side", that they know I really want to or that they bet I could "really go to town". I respect their lifestyle and all of them are in lesbian relationships which I dont fully understand. 90% of them are bi or have come from M/F relationships. My question is this...Just as some M/F have "open" relationships, am I wrong to assume that gay/lesbians do as well? How do I enquire if they have a "deal" with their GFs to be allowed penis if they feel the need? Is it totally inappropriate to ask one of them to join in a MFF threesome? Id take the same approach towards a M/F couple but I have first hand knowledge of how those work and Im aware that most gay/lesbians consider their status to be just the same. Am I being too PC about an extremly un-PC topic?! Help please...I have a time frame...
     
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    could you summarize in 2 sentences.
     
  3. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Yeah!
    I got bored and quit reading it.
     
  4. Thedawg

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    I wasn't bored at all...I guess you should just come out and ask some lesbian or bi friends what they think? Honesty is the best policy and someone may surprise you with a positive response. Ultimately, it may be a great experience for you. Good luck!
     
  5. The_Phantom

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    When you figure out how to have another woman join you, let me know. I need one too. Don't need a guy, just another woman.
     
  6. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  7. Yazzz

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    If I were you I'd tread lightly... in my experience some gay women (usually the one who plays the part of the guy in the relationship) can be VERY intimidated/insecure about outside males - especially if the more feminine women in the relationship is more bisexual in nature.

    They are easily threatened by men, I guess has been my experience with them in the past.
     
  8. whythehechnot?

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    @orison319 & TAZER-69...How do I proposition the gals I know that have/go both ways to let me show them a damn good time while I let them have parts of me that they only dream about? As long as my guy can help.....BETTER?!
     
  9. whythehechnot?

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    I can forsee that in at least two of my options. Hence my apprehension...
     
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