I've always thought of myself not being normal in the traditional sense, because a) I'm a guy, and b) no I don't want to have sex with just "ANY" woman. Most guys seem entirely happy to sleep with just anyone. Many don't actually care who with. At all. So long as they get some action... which isn't really my style. I expect some small amount of chemistry, if only a litte. It's also important that the woman is into me in some way, however small. I've known plenty of guys who are always delighted to shag anything with a pair of tits and a pulse. it's not about standards. It's more about not making sacrifices. This puts me (usually happily) in the minority. After all, a great wank is better than a bad shag. Isn't it?
I don't agree with you about how you characterize most guys. Sounds like post-feminist garbage to me.
I'm the same way and married now. I regret not sleeping with more women before my wife because now I'll never have the chance to experience sex with different kinds of women.
I think most people want some level of intimacy or interest in their sexual partners. The problem ppl run into is lonliness. Man or woman, if you haven't had a sex partner in a while, the hottest tail is probably going to be the willing one.
Most guys would sleep with any woman? What exactly sustains this theory? Is it just your own limited experience with a relatively small group of your peers or is there something more substantial? Oh, and you can easily have a "bad shag" with a woman that is attracted to you and that you are attracted to. Chemistry doesn't necessarily mean you're gonna hit it off in bed.
To clarify, I'm drawing my conclusions based on what I've seen and heard, having lived and made a great many friends (and girlfriends) on three continents. I've seen and inadvertently set up countless convenience shags, many which last just one night, with my female friends being largely selective most of the time whilst men mostly seem to happy to jump into bed with anyone, when the opportunity presents itself. Take the twenty something's, on a night on the town. All the girls enjoy the male attention and have almost always employed some degree of selectivity when bein chatted up. The guys on the other hand, will bed the first girl who consents. I don think I have EVER heard a woman say 'come back to my place tonight?' to a guy and heard him say she wasn't his type. Going back to the days when I'd frequently spend a couple of nights out on the juice in town with mates, part of the purpose of going out was to mingle with members of the opposite sex and pull when you can. I've always been a little more selective. Been to bed with probably in excess of ten women I didn't shag. And what about "pull a pig" nights? Again, it's predominantly a male-only thing.
Honey , find me just ONE NORMAL person.... whats NORMAL anyway.... God , I HOPE im NOT.....Normal sounds pretty boring to me
I disagree strongly - most men ARE like this. Almost all my friends are like this and when I was in the military 90% of the men were like this. When I was in college 90% of the men were like this. I think you must be sheltered or something - most men really don't give a fuck who they sleep with - especially at younger ages but pretty much for their entire adult life. Oh - and I've known A LOT of gay men in my time and I don't know if you ever noticed but gay men are promiscuous as fuck - it's because there are no women involved in the equation - just a bunch of guys.
this might be true if you hang out with jersey-shore type douchebags, but most men are looking for a connection, not just somewhere to stick their dick.
Ok, now you're widening the circle a little bit ... still not enough for me. And generalizations generally don't float my boat. There sure is that type ... but from there to saying almost everyone is like that is complete BS. Do you know how many "hot" girls I've fled from once they opened their mouths? Sheesh ...
passion brings the best sex --- me I have always been picky ... this brings a sense of loss at times when you show interest yet are rejected, and as usual turn to myself indulgence wondering why someone doesn't want to share what I have ... deep passion for a fine pussy.
The fact that you make this statement and think that's what defines the majority of guys.... amazing to me that you think that's true. Quite interesting actually - where are you from if you don't mind disclosing that? Are you from a high population area or low? This is so contrast to everyone I've ever met. 98% of men would not turn down a really hot woman no matter what she said.
"This is so contrast to everyone I've ever met. 98% of men would not turn down a really hot woman no matter what she said." Very much agreed - passion of a fine pussy results in little conversation while in the act
I believe that there is a slight gender difference, but not as big of a difference between the genders that the original poster suggests. I also think that men are more likely to kiss and tell, and women are more likely to be quiet about their adventures, and that makes the difference between the sexes seem larger. Actually, who cares what is normal though? I don't. I just stick to good ethics. As long as everyone is agreeing and enjoying sex, it should be OK. To hell with morality. Honesty and ethics is all we need.
I am not defining the majority of guys. I merely try to against generalizations. It's something I really dislike. I'm originally from central Europe, but have been living in many different countries all over the world for the past 15 years. And that only adds to my dislike of generalization. I don't really know where you get the 98% figure from but it's hardly representative to me.
i am one guy who enjoys a connection with my lovers and i would not have any other way, the thought of just taking whats willing disgusts me. although that does not mean i'm not checking out the ass of the girl at the shop inline infront of me.. thats just innocent i think. there is no intention there only appreciation of beauty. that said the thought of doing something so personal as sex with someone i don't know at all causes me to shudder in horror. and no, it's not really anything to do with their previous actions, where theyve been or all that, it's more just that if that connection is not present i do not know her well enough to be there doing that. that scene does not attract me at all. i'm not saying my attitude has always been this way as it hasn't. i used to be vthe type with an overly high sex drive and i'd let that control me and my actions.. and end up with girls i didn't know very well. this wasn't a good feeling it is not meant to be that way if you ask me. however this my current state of mind, i believe to be an evolution. now, my heart, my intellect and my spirit control my actions.. and the idea of those acts with half-strangers seems obsurd and wrong.
