Is this a weird 3some fantasy?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by SarahD, Apr 28, 2011.

  1. SarahD

    SarahD Guest

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    I am hugely turned on by fantasizing about my husband having sex with other women. Talking about it, thinking about it; him telling me about women he's attracted to and what he wants to do with them etc. etc.gets me really hot. I was wondering
    1. Is anybody else into this
    2. I sit really weird that I'm into this?
    3. Has anyone ever been in this situation and took it from a fantasy to a reality, and if so how did that work out for you?

    Anything anyone has to offer would be great :)
     
  2. illiniT

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    nope not bad, old g/f had that of me, then she watched few times and loved it. I have it of my wife now and another lady and/or guy.
     
  3. Prometheus92

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    1. eh no. i get jealous too easy.
    2. not really. everyone is different. besides this "fantasy" is certainly not unheard of.
    3. see answer 1.
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

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    A girl watching a guy doing a gal.


    No, thats so weird, dont think its ever happened in the history of the world before
     
  5. birsha

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    Oddly enough not a fantasy I had. But after having actually watched my boyfriend have sex with another girl I can definitely confirm it was hot.

    I thought I'd hate it. But watching my man please himself with another girl gave me an almost primal thrill.
     
  6. bootyluvr42

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    I had a girlfriend that liked watching me do her best friend and got really turned on by it but wouldnt have a 3some and didnt want me doing kt with her when she wasnt watching which was kinda weird. this would make her so horny and wet when we did have sex she would orgasm within a couple of minutes.
     
  7. Mothman

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    It sounds pretty hot to me but I don't think I could just bang one chick the entire time, maybe for a while to get the other one off but it would seem a waste to not get my dick in the other chick before it's over.
     
  8. p0ly

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    You rule! My ex gf was a paranoid freak and didn't even like me speaking to other girls, this is the opposite end of the spectrum and gives me lots of hope in future relationships with girls ;)
     
  9. tuesdaystar

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    I like when I think a girl's attractive to him but he will very rarely even hint at sexual thoughts or attractions to other girls unless they are like actresses.

    I do feel a little threatened when I even see a girl with perfect curves that I think is sexier than me and his type, but it's a rush and I think about her coming on to him and him being paralyzed with desire (like *gulp*) while he can't help but get hard where stands.
     
  10. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    eh sex is different for every one if it gets u off and dont hurt no one go for it gurl treat yo self
     
  11. iwanttoknow

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    I would love to share my wife with another man and then have both of them. I think I would like to lick her pussy clean after she had someone else.
     
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  12. the thinker

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    Bi 3some would be great
     
  13. Eros8988

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    Fantasies are never wrong to have! Almost always regardless of the content it is a healthy part of our sexuality as long as it remains in our head. You are not unusual for having this fantasy in particular. Some women enjoy the rush of seeing first hand what is being done to them in the third person, so to speak. Some people buy bedrooms with large mirrors to get this same sense of eroticism in their sex life, or you can simply purchase a giant mirror. If you would like this fantasy to become a reality, if you have a good open communication with your husband, it certainly wouldn't hurt to discuss it with him, and more often than not, they might be more into the idea than you might think.
     
  14. RawAndNatural

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    I don't think that this fantasy is weird. It's like the female version of Hot Wife fantasies where men love the idea of their wife being fucked by another guy (which turns me on big time!).
     
  15. PigWig

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    Sounds like a great fantasy to me. If any woman had a fantasy, whatever it was would turn me on because it was her fantasy. Yours is pretty basic - sex with another. Can't imagine many blokes wouldn't be turned on by it.
     
  16. pangea

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    Simply not even close to bad. Consider yourself lucky , you know what you like and you are supportive of others pursuing their own. :2thumbsup:
     
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  17. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    I know lots of people say that it’s like impossible to be monogamous for the rest of your life but I know myself and I know I wouldn’t need any one else if I was with another person. So I don’t think I could share my wife. That being said I would love to be the other guy in some one else’s relationship. I think that makes me like a hypocrite or whatever but eh it’s the way shit is. Sometimes I see a really hot couple and I just think about how hot it would be to be like with the both of them.
     
  18. sunshine_the_sadist

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    i had never had the fantasy, but i was a little bi-curious. Well my husband and i ended up have a 3-some with my best friend. (who i already thought was hot) I LOVED IT!!! it was very hot and it was alot like having my own live porn. not to mention i got to see what he looks like when fucking me from an angle i cant usually see. it has made my husband and i even closer and made me a little bit bi. we have done it a few times now and i like it more and more every time. as long as you can ignore all emotion and focus on pure pleasure it will e wonderful.. i have even dreamt of him fucking her then me. or him fucking her and me eating his cum out of her... mmm....
     
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  19. birsha

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    I can vouch for the last line. I think boyfriend just about died when he saw me do that.
     
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  20. zerojanai

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    That sounds like it'd be a lot of fun! Sunshine the sadist: Can you explain how you and your hubby became closer please? Also- did you have any ground rules set down beforehand?

    Honestly, I'd love to try this, but I can certainly understand that it takes a different mindset about sex while in a relationship. Don't think I'd be ready to have someone join in for a while, but I'd love to have a gal watch the Mrs and I go at it! Especially if she was getting herself off while watching us. :)
     

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