This is probably a stupid question, well I don't really know. But what do you think of when masturbating?? For the time being, mostly girls, my girlfriend and so on. But I feel kind of guilty sometimes jacking off to someone else, is this normal?
lol I don't think about anything except the feeling when I masturbate. But I would say that jacking it to someone else isn't cheating and you're supposed to be fantasizing about something that is going to really get you off. You shouldn't feel guilty about a fantasy. Reality is your significant other. Fantasy can be anything. I'm sure you don't love your significant other any less because you fantasize while masturbating.
When I was in jh and the first few years of hs my rule was to never jo to someone I knew or like saw in real life but I really had the hots for this one teacher and so that went out the window and once I started I couldn’t stop I think about just about any one.
Everyone has different boundaries regarding fidelity. Some people think that lusting after someone besides your partner is a rule breaker. That's the extremely conservative end of the spectrum. At the opposite end of the spectrum, some people are ok with their partner having sex with someone else. You need to decide what your boundaries are and find out what your partner desires and expects. Personally, I'm in an open relationship and I'm biased towards people having lots of freedom, but also being very honest about feelings and intentions. When I masturbate I generally think about some imaginary hippie chick that is fit, doesn't shave, and has brown hair. She craves having something big in her pussy whether it be a man's cock (besides her partner's), a dildo, or a woman's hand. I think of so many different scenarios and how she could meet and how sex begins with the "other" people besides her own partner.
My bf says he pretty much always thinks of me. Maybe I should believe him, but it doesn't make much sense to me. I'm almost never thinking of him, not because I'm not into him. He's just not a fantasy.
this may depend on how many real life women he has been with.. Ive made love to my wife more than any other person on the planet. Every time I do make love to her, Im dreaming or visualizing what it feels like. So I can project it into my mind when shes not with me.
Don't really think about anything, more like how im reacting... Looking at the porn/girl like this :watchplant: Deep down inside im happy like this :window:
