the very first need in the life of everyone

the very first need in everyone´s life is to be loved and accepted as you are. Do you know what the second need is? to be loved and accepted as you are! you know what the third need is? to be loved and accepted as you are. this comes first.
:love:
every healing wether it´s emotional or physical starts with the deep understanding of feeling loved as you are!

my parents didn´t accept me for who I was. they tried me to be someone that I really wasn´t like. so I have been searching for love for many years and found that Love finally!

no it´s my mission to love people and accept them for who they are! if anyone needs to be loved and accepted i would like to help!

please connect if you like!
With unconditional love,
patrick

 

I dont even know who I am, so I dont expect anyone else too.

Every kind of love has at least one condition.

My first need in life is usually involves my penis

 

Hey Patrick,

You are a bautiful humanbeing and I thank you for being alive. I love you and I love you with all my hart and soul. So as much as someone can send a hug and a kiss through the Internet. I'm sending you a million of them right now.

Great message at a time when we really need positive messages like this one.

I love you Vanila Gorila! And the love I'm sending you now has no conditions. It's tax free and if you need more in order to give some to your friends. Just ask me for more. Because I've got lots of the stuff just cluttering up the place and I would love to give it all away.

 

The very first need in everyone´s life Oxygen if i am not wrong.I understand where you are coming from my mom is psycho and my dad is a hippie so lucky when mom was not around me and dad would just veg out together so it was not all bad for me.

 

Being physically alive is not the same as being "alive".
Having said that, I love you! Thank you for sharing ths planet with me.

 

I understand what you what you mean by alive i was just joking i am sorry friends that know me know i dont filter much of what i have to say.

 

A need is something you can not do without.

Oxygen is a need... if you don't have it, you die.

Love, is not a need, without it, you do not die... You may not be 'normal' if you don't get it from your childhood, but it is not something that WILL kill you if you don't have it.

You love everyone? Then I don't love you... I don't love, or even like people who express love for child abusers, rapists, killers and such.

I am very selective about who I share my love with... I share it with those that I feel are making the world a better place, or at least not making it a worse one.

Those who are making it a worse world... get only one emotion from me, and it is not very loving.

 

This.

I would never expect anyone to accept everything I am. Heck, I don't even accept myself sometimes.

 

*points and laughs at the pendantic twats in this thread*

i've seen ya spread a lotta luv on this site over the last coupla years pkj

i'm glad you found yours ... enjoy it :sunny:

 

thanks for sharing bro!

 

I LOVE YOU TOO bro! HUGS

 

wish i could give you a good warm hug bro! LOVE

 

Hope that we all learn to love and be loved more and more every day bro! it´s a nice process! HUGS

 

sending your virtual hugs!!!!!

 

You save your love for the child molestors then... because I make a choice to reject people like that, not find a way to learn to love them or support those who do.

 

THANKS Oz! i´ve been touched by your faithfulness to be here for such a long time and to connect with so many people! hope you will share much Love wit many people!!! love you bro!

 

THANKS for being honest bro! love to see that!

 

I have to admit, I have a morbid curiosity about people such as yourself...

Tell me something would you?

How is anything you are doing in this thread supporting this?

How do you accept someone for who they are, when you don't know who they are in any way shape or form?

Saying... "I love everyone" to me, makes it worthless... you aren't loving people for who they are... you don't know who everyone is...

That was the point of my 'pendantic' post... something that people just seem to keep missing when they post these, I love everyone threads...

Let's forget generalities shall we?

Someone molests your child... do you extend love to that person? If you do, what does that tell your child? Do you think that child is going to grow up feeling anything good about love, when you also love the person who molested them?

 

You can love the person without condoning their actions.

So just for you I'm giving a BIG WARM HUG!!! And if you're not capable of doing it, I'll give hugs to all the monsters in this world for you.

It teaches your child more than if you walked up to the guy and cut off his penis. I've learned many things. One is you can't fight evil with evil. You fight evil with love and that means "justice."

A system based on love is a system based on justice. It factors in all the variables and acknowledges that in some situations the abuser is can is often as much a victim. Most molesters/abusers were themself abused and molested. A punishment is required but punishment that does nothing to rectify the underlying problem is sterile.

The fact is that the reason behind why most violent crimes exist is the the aggressor didn't receive enough love and attention as a child. Yes it is as simple as that.

You can talk to anyone involved in our legal system. They will all agree to the validity of the above comment. But unfortunately, messed up children are required to support the ever increasing prison industry and it's dependant law enforcement, legal and firearms industries.

If we just provided adequate mental health care, taught adolescents how to show affection and care for children. There is no doubt in my mind that within 1 or 2 generations the entire prison system would collapse and most lawyers would be confined to doing real estate transactions.

 

A person's actions is what makes them who they are.

To say that you don't have to condone their actions, says that it doesn't matter what they do.

If it doesn't matter, then the love is worthless.