very very confused

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by bunky1, Jun 1, 2011.

  1. bunky1

    bunky1 Guest

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    about 6 months ago i tried my first bisexual experience. i meant to try it once to satisfy my curiousity but since then a friend has pointed out that ive been bottom everytime and its turned into a bi weekly thing at least. i find myself only thinking about cock and have not been pursuing women at all. my friend said that im probably just on my way to men only and pointed out my recent panty purchases as a sign. im afraid shes right but dont know how to handle it.
     
  2. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    what is there to handle?

    you're gay, embrace and enjoy it!
     
  3. bunky1

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    its just not something that i thought would lead to this. curiousity tooks leaps and bounds quickly!
     
  4. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Rest Assured You Are Not The Only Gay In The Village...:)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  5. bunky1

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    well i guess if thats where its headed then i might as well be bottoms up the whole way and flash my panties!
     
  6. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Good Luck to you , best bet would be to find a few like minded folks to hang with , its always good to have a safety net.
     
  7. sixties_freak

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    Thats so cool. It's how I got
    into gay sex too. I just thought
    I'd try it one night but everything
    changed when I first went to bed
    with a guy.Just can't leave it alone
    now lol.
     
  8. LewTheCodfish21

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    lol panties purchase? if you think your straight after buying yourself some panties you are one hell of an ignorant (insert word here). embrace yourself! your journey has finally begun!
     
  9. KewlDewd66

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    You do what works for you. Panties, bottoming, whatever. This is really your business. If it stops floating your boat, try something else... As simple as that. You do not have to label yourself or fly a rainbow flag in your front yard. Nor does your friend who is doing it 2x a week with you and is wondering about your being bi/gay:)

    KD
     
  10. LeviathanXII

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    You do not need to define yourself buddy. I identify as bisexual, but only because it is easier for people to understand. Enjoy what comes and stop worrying about if it fits into a label. I have enjoyed sex with men and women, if you can, great, if you choose one over the other, still great! Be you. And enjoy yourself :)
     
  11. janet yan

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    [​IMG]What's to fear in the face
     
  12. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    what's there to handle. just go with what feels good for you. don't worry about what other people think. and don't start artificially changing your behavior cause you think you should do this or that. that would be fake. do what comes naturally. that's the best compass on how to go about anything.
     

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