Just sucking his cock

Are there any other guys who aren't attracted to men, but are curious about sucking a cock? Besides sucking my cock, my friend wants to hug and kiss. I'm not into it and have no desires or attraction other than sucking his cock and having him suck mine. We can hang out like any two friends, but we suck each others cocks. He would like to cuddle, hug and kiss, but Im totally uncomfortable about it and don't have any desires to even try. It seems funny to say, I like sucking cock, but I'm not into guys.
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where are you from?

how old are you?

 

No biggie.

You are who you are! You enjoy what you enjoy, and you are loooking for compatible partners. There is nothing even remotely wrong with that...

KD

 

I have had the same problems with most contacts. I just move on .... Like the saying, You've got to kiss a lot of toads before you find the right frog.

Eventualy I'll find someone who is also 90% straight but still liked a good cock sucking occasionaly.

Personnaly I prefer to do the sucking. :drool5:

 

I've always wondered about that attitude amongst some men. Not making any implications or anything, but does anyone think it's possible that some of them would enjoy being romantic with men but are conditioned not to like it, and simply go for a physical aspect of men? Is it ever like a first step kinda thing?

Then again, maybe it's just curiosity / enjoying the sensation, rather than emotional connection. Who knows?

 

If I had the time and the money, I would be banging women like Tiger Woods,but I don't , I'm not a cheater and all I am looking for is a good bj now and then. Going through the hastle of sneaking around with a woman just for some sex isn't worth the trouble, money or time. I don't mind returning the favorof a quick bj, it's the polite thing to do. Other than the mutual sexual satisfaction of a bj, the sex ends there and we are buddies. My wife is cool with it and says why not enjoy it, just like I would enjoy a good martini.

 

This should be probably called pseudo-situational homosexuality.

A number of straight men agree to have sex with other men, if they have no access to women at isolated posts, barracks, prisons, same sex schools, etc. Even if m2m sex might not really be their first choice (or their choice at all) some sex is practically always better than absolutely no sex.

In the meantime, the social landscape has drastically changed. M2M sex has ceased to be taboo practically everywhere. Homosexuality is very clearly visible, and has become an ever more acceptable form of male sexual expression.

Promiscous people (of both sexes) know that those who are willing to compromise more - get more.

I can easily believe Topper that he would be rather banging women, if the cost in terms of time, money, and energy spent, (plus the risk of rejection at a late stage) were the same. M2M sex is usually quick, trouble-free and rather inexpensive. Being short of the resources needed (time, energy and cash), is actually equal to being confined to an all same sex institution of some kind with no (or with very limited) access to opposite sex. Very much as in "we are all free to travel abroad and have valid documents but only some of us can really afford to do so... The others will have to be happy with their TV dinners at home..."

On a functional level, however, homosexuality is what it is: homosexuality. I happen to be a gay guy. And I am happy to have my dick serviced. If a qualified guy is ready and willing, his actual personal sexual preferences are of absolutely no importance to me whatsoever. Why would I care for them at all?

IMHE, reciprocation is however, usually neither expected nor really required. Over the years, I have met several thousands men for sex. So far, only two or three men asked for reciprocation. This does not go on to say that other men do not enjoy a BJ. They are simply happy to service one guy and possibly get serviced themselves by someone else. When it comes to sex, being 'polite' is somewhat ill-at-place. You want a guy to service you because this is what both he and you enjoy. If he feels that he has to do it for the sake of good social manners alone, you'd be better off, letting him go and looking for someone who really wants to do the deed because that's what he genuinely enjoys.

KD

 

Most bi guys I know are like you. They enjoy the oral part or even being a top but most do not even want to entertain the thought of cuddling or kissing, and most are not "attracted" to other guys. I was like this for the longest time. I only recently started to find SOME men attractive, but they are of a certain "brand" I have not kissed one yet but I will not rule anything out.

I would say you are perfectly normal for a bi guy, your friend seems to be a bit more of a fem than you. but that doesnt mean that you cant still suck cock and be buddies

 

That's pretty much all I'm looking for myself... Someone I can suck, he can suck me, I can top him, and if he's not all that big, I'd be open to him topping me. Guys like that are so hard to find. If only it were as easy as just placing an ad, and the other person reading the article gets it.

 

Well I love cuddling and kissing with both sexes though my biggest emotional turn on is with women.

Everyone is different, thank god, don't worry about the labelling - just get on with opening the parcel :sunny:

Simon

 

Well apparently you are into guys seeing as how like dick in your mouth... And other guys are literally "in to you".

Not that there's anything wrong with that.. Really.. Just don't lie and be ashamed.

 

I've met tons of guys like yourself, nothing wrong with it at all. Maybe you should find a guy that is more like you though. Sounds like your mate might be after a bit more than just sucking your cock though.

 

Transwoman here looking 4 a dude to suck on my titties and suck my cock. Then if you would like, you could sit on my dick and ride it untill we both cum! I like to have my girlie butt fucked too! Get me back.

 

i understand because even though i am curious about some sexual intercouse and fun with a guy im not into the hugging and kissing just bjs and anal play

 

I'm preeeeeetty curious.

 

I find the thought of sucking a cock exciting but the reality of std's out there make it really dangerous,much more than straight sex.But at now at middle age I crave a juicy dick and am afraid to act on it.

 

i can see what you mean and makes perfect sense. you dont like the relationship part just the sex!!!

 

i don't think it's weird
beacuse sucking on a cock and getting your cock sucked
are both pleasurable experiences,

you're not interested in guys, i think you're interested in the pleasure

 

im a straight guy or so i think, but i love sucking cock, im not attracted to any guy i wont even look up but when im looking at his cock and just sucking it i love it !

 

thats great! i think sexuality is a gift and im happy that you are exploring it as you feel like.
it sounds like your friend is getting his feelings involved. perhaps u and him should call it quits before he gets hurt. its simple enough to find other guys who are into NSA sex. be careful with your friend