My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now (been with eachother for about 9), anyways, i feel i love her but its different than with past ones, i still lust for her, care for her, but sexually.. i want other women as well. shes not into sharing me sexualy which i understand but idk what to do because i want to have sex with other women, alot. anyone got some input or can relate?
I get where you're coming from, but I think you're considering going down a road that isn't going to end well. If your girl is OK with sharing (you said she's not), then as long as you use common sense things have a much better chance of working out. The thing you have to consider when you think about having sex with someone else behind her back isn't even the betrayal, but the fact that you're gambling with her life. Some STD's can kill you, and a condom isn't a guarantee. Talk to her. If your relationship leaves you with this much need, you might need to move on.
partally agreed, if your thinking this its either that your relationship is in perril or that your just subconsciously scared cos you may have found the right woman but are thinking its too good to be true so your thinking of doing summut to ruin it first
I'm in the same boat, I was actually gonna make a post about it. I've been with my girl for about 4 months as well, and I'm starting to think that not only am i incapable of love, but im incapable of monogomy. Idk, maybe its just my age, I'm 23 and I have this burning desire to fuck everyone.
I'm in an open relationship, well... polyamory, and I can't just fuck anyone that I find attractive. I still have to take things into consideration. Now, you are certainly doing the right thing by telling her about your true feelings. Radical honesty isn't easy, but it's worth it. Don't do things behind her back. Would you agree for her to be able to fuck another guy? What's good for the gander is good for the goose here.
Most guys seem delighted to be shagging anything with a pulse. I only like sex which is comfortable, somewhat loving, slowly passionate and caring. You are unlikely to find the above in a one night stand unless you knew the girl beforehand. I crave sexual scenarios, all men do, but would you be left feeling fulfilled after the event if you cheated, risked your relationship, etc? I would rather have a great wank than a lousy lay. You probably have enough loving caring feelings with your partner to create some great sexual scenarios, if you both work at it, or you wouldn't be in a relationship together. Im not saying I know what's right for you, but any man who denies wanting sex with multiple women is probably a liar or a eunuch.
You're a dude... Instinctively speaking, you are meant to spread your seed as often as possible. You create billions of sperms EVERY DAY. Women, on the other hand, create 1 egg per month. This is why they are meant to ''keep'' a man. That's the big joke! All I can say - get used to it. It's a sacrifice to make if you want to be with her. I don't know if it's ever gonna change. Personally I don't see the day where I'm going to not want to bang all the hot chicks I see.
