Ok so my major problem is I feel that it is near impossible for love to last or even be two sided for a long time. It seems like if you care to much you get screwed over and the other SO sees you you differently. But if you distance your feelings and don't care that much you never truley get to love. So what? If you love you get screwed over, if you choose not to get screwed over you don't get to love? Also I don't think i have ever meet a couple that had a true relationship , someone is always a cheater, someone is always the bad guy or girl at the moment. I feel that much of this comes from humans always wanting more. If you have someone under you palm you want more so you start to treat them like shit? Hey I have no answers for this just like the discussion because it always bothers me. In the words of Warhol "is it possible for a love affair to last forever". My wish is that it is possible.