Vagina not deep enough -_-

yeah, it's usually the dog that slams my cervical stop sign or whatever's at the end of my vagina map

does he have a curvature?

 

BBAD might be onto something.

I'd say go slow, don't be THRUSTING if it's hurting, see if you can't get used to having it properly in, get as used to it as you can, then get on to doing your thing.

Use positions that work, and techniques that work.... I mean, if it's not working, don't do it!

You've got (at least) three holes, and a bunch of positions, I'm sure you can find enough combos that you can have fun. Openly talk about your problem and find a solution. If anything, you'll just make him feel good about himself, talking about it

 

^quite right

I suggest you do him on a couch

his hips will hold him back a bit if he's sitting

 

Regardless of size, shape, bends, curves, RACE, or anything else, it all comes back to communication between those involved.

If someone does something that hurts, you let them know it hurts, and they should try a different tactic.

A good lover will pick up on your body language and adjust automatically to things that feel good to you.

 

He is most certainly correct, open communication above all else!

 

Speed may well be the issue, as this is something I remember most clearly from my first time.
As my only previous sexual experience had been from masturbating, I naturally assumed that masturbation was just a matter of using the hand to create an artificial vagina, and that in order to get anywhere that the pace must naturally be the same. It didn't take me long to learn that I was wrong. Although not much more than average length, I have a very wide girth, and as soon as I started pounding away she was screaming me to 'take it easy'. I did as she asked, taking it as slow as possible, and was surprised at how good the minimal pace felt.

I appreciate that this is the viewpoint from the male perspective, but it outlines how my own lack of experience made it painful for the woman, which leads to the obvious question of whether or not your own partner is experienced.

 

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the dog does it ?

 

A Carnal Canine Perhaps...



Cheers Glen.

 

There is a whole section in the Kama-Sutra that talks about positions for "incompatible" genitals. You can also check it out in "The Kama-Sutra for Dummies". The dude in the pictures is hung like a bear.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

How long have you been having sex?
When I first started with my current boyfriend it really hurt when he went as deep at he could. But after a while (several days of having sex every day) it went from painful to a little uncomfortable. So time might help.

Another possibility is that you are aroused enough. The uterus moves when a woman is fully aroused, adding about 2 more inches in depth. Try more foreplay. That might help too.

 

Well, if I tell him to stop because it hurts he does, lol. We're just trying to work with it, it eases a little if I support him with my hands on his hips so he can't go all the way down/in, heh

Never thought I'd have this problem!

 

i used to have the same problem with my boyfriend. some positions hurt so bad.. id be like AAHH and he'd think i was enjoyin it :rofl: so he'd keep doin it, and i was like NOOO STOP NOWW!!! hahaa..
Its ok now tho. i still cant "grind" on him. ha. that hurts!

But anything else is fine now most of the time..sometimes he still finds a way to hurt me (not purposely)

you'll be fine.. just work with what you can, then gradually youl get used to it.

 

If he is inexperienced, then he needs to learn that when the end of his dick hits something, he needs to stop going forward and control his thrusts to that point, UNTIL you make it clear you want him to go harder.

 

visit the gyno

 

Ive been with 2 girls like this. The only advice I can think of is mess around with everything and find which ones you can do. And as far as doggy...Try spreading your knees apart a little farther than normal. That worked for one of them.

 

:smilielol5:

 

Let me have a look Seized, i can make a bigger hole

Seriously tho, just tell him to go slow or just get in positions where you have more control. I've had this problem with quite a few girls, their boxes just aren't big enough for the package, so i've just learned to take it slow (literally inch my way deeper). Also lube, lube and more foreplay helps as well.

 

i can believe this.100% haha

 

hahah bonkai.
It's not that I can't open up enough, it's that I'm just not deep enough. I'm probably just one of those girls.. pfft

 

You could try "Spoon" position, it does provide slightly less full on penetration from him, and it is a nice position to have some closeness. Another possibility is you might not be lubricated enough before intercourse. Bonus is, you'll have more fun before and after with the extra attention. I can't really speak from experience as I haven't never felt "Pain" during sex but then again I like it a little rougher.