Is it common in both males and females. I often fantasies about ruff and forceful sex but not out and out home invasion rape... more like angry sex.
I often fantasise about being molested - not because it is a common male fantasy, but for me it's an actual memory. It's how I lost my virginity. Although I had a very strong sexual drive, I was always very shy & nervous about expressing it, until one day I was set upon by a nymphomaniac woman twice my age, and allthough I did my best to resist, eventually my natural hormonal instincts took over and I yielded. To this day I am actually grateful that it happened, as that initial experience made it easier for me to get involved with other women in the future.
Fantasies are, by definition, just that. A scenario created in the imagination from a purely fictional basis, from memories, or a combination of both. However, regardless of how bizarre one's fantasies may be doesn't mean that they are ever going to resort to trying to realise them in real life.
I love extremely rough sex. I wish my husband would be rougher! Not "rape" but being forcefully yet willingly taken is a big turn on. I like to fight a little so he has to hold me down. I also like him to have a tight grip on my hair when I give him oral . He holds me still while he gags me with his cock. I have been trying to get him to give me a hard spanking but no luck just yet. The rougher the better honestly! I may be the minority though not sure but a lot of my friends like it rough at least some of the time.
I dont know about out and out rape, but I love forced oral from men and women... it really turns me on when a guy who has a huge dick forces me to deepthroat it and I gag so hard it makes me cry.... is that weird?
I actually took a course on human sexuality that covered this. Rape fantasies are not uncommon. Being completely overpowered is the second most common fantasy among women, and a study showed that nearly half of the men involved had some sort of fantasy involving being raped by a woman.
I sometimes masturbate, fantasising about raping a guy, I like the idea of dominating him and forcing to have sex with me