Please help ladies my wife does not like me to give her oral, she says fingering hurts her, and says she don't like me to rub her clit either??? What can I. do?
Some women simply do not like oral and are not comfortable with someones hands down there. Also, some womens clits are hypersensitive and can only do well by vaginal/anal penetration. Clip your fingernails and respect her wishes.
don't use it as a turn table. I've told plenty of guys that I don't like it only because they act like my clit is a turn table and it friggen hurts
Crawl Back Under Your Bridge Is The Best Advice I Can Give..:troll::troll::troll::troll: Cheers Glen.
LEARN LEARN LEARN is what you need to do. KNOWLEDGE is your answer. Learn her anatomy, massage techniques, etc., etc.,etc., and have PATIENCE!!!
I have tried, she does not. e to give feedback? I would love to give her a gspots orgasims or w my tounge....
Try turning her on first... And don't go near her pussy til she's visibly and audibly aroused. There's nothing worse than some impatient dick trying to hurry things along before you've even had a chance to start enjoying yourself. The equivalent to a bucket of cold water... So take your time and give her a chance.
Yet another thread about someone who finds out he/she is incompatible with his/her partner after committing...Did you not know these facts about your wife before getting married? I don`t mean to sound rude, let me go back to minding my own business.
So I wonder how many people think they are sexually incompatible with their committed partner, time for a poll.
As already stated some women are very hypersensitive to the point they can't stand being touched or stimulated by any normal means, be it fingers or tongue. Unfortunately if she doesn't like it, you need to respect her wishes. Though you could throw in some little suggestions to her and see if it would be something she is willing to try: Rub lube around the tips of your fingers and just gently glide your hands down the outer lips and slowly work your way into the middle working from the bottom of the clit upwards. Or ice cubes, but make sure to warm them up first so they are in the process of melting the cold will desensitize her a little and could make it a little more bearable for her to be touched.
Haha-sounds like my first wife-she did like me to rub her clit, though (and loved to have it licked) Is your wife normal? If she is, you're one lucky guy, that's all I can tell you...:sultan:
Yeah, this is why premarital sex is so important. Well...that's one of the reasons. Having fun is important too. Is she normal? I rarely use the word normal when talking about sex. Everybody is different. What is normal sex? I don't know, and I don't think it matters. As long as your practices are safe and healthy, it's all a matter of personal preference. Never mind what you've read or seen in porn or heard from other people. Learn what turns your wife on the most, and become an expert at it. Most likely, foreplay and romance are as important to her as the sexual acts. Unless she is a cold person, she will reward you for your efforts to please her and make her feel special. If she feels that you are trying to shape and mold her into some ideal sex kitten image that you have in your mind, that's going to build a wall between you. That kind of pressure is a turn-off for most women.
i think your relationship needs to looked at a different angle. not sure if she is seeing someone else, but it seems there is work to be done and things are getting somehow boring in your mirage life. she is not turned on by you basically, that's what i think
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