I cheat on my girlfriend Am I a bad person?

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about six months and she said she never will have sex with me and she never has, this was about 4 months in, She says she doesnt feel anything down there but that I do get her wet all the time. So Like most men I have gone down the path of cheating on her behind her back. She lives away from me and I sleep with hookers (hookers keep secrets). I love her and feel like I would die for her, but I still can't help cheating on her. Am I a bad person???

 

You screw hookers?

 

You're a bad boyfriend, a bad man ("like most men", way to feed into the man-bashing bullshit), and hopefully a bad troll

 

why are you going out with someone who will never have sex with you?

 

I do indeed screw hookers, I am not a troll but I can see why you would say that. I am going out with someone who will never have sex with me because it feels good to have someone whos there for you and the opposite sex, I also stay with her because her life is terrible and I am slowly improving it.

 

Your girlfriend is going to think you're an awful person. You're probably not an awful person, you're probably just a young guy with crazy hormones that are making your sex drive intense. If you continued to date this girl and have sex behind her back it probably would turn you into a bad person eventually because perpetually lying about anything will eventually do that to a person.

Also, think about this...what if you get an STD from those hookers, your girlfriend finally gives in and has sex with you, and you give that sweet little virginal girl an STD?!?

 

Dude, thats some tuff shit. but your best bet is to just use what God gave ya in situations like these. ur hand. ur hand cant give u disease, get pregnant, or say no.

good luck tho bro.

 

she tells you she doesnt feel anything down there? wtf is that supposed to mean.. My best guess is youre getting pooned on bad, and shes using you for your money, while she goes behind your back and fucks other guys, maybe even a midget..

 

yep

 

Why hookers? Eh u should brake up with her and find some one new who u can be faithful to

 

Hookers are so Rock n Roll though...

 

I dont know if you are a bad person, but you should totally break up with her!

 

Yep, not only are you a bad person for cheating, you're a sucker for dating someone you have to cheat on.

 

I visit other forums... sometimes.. :love:

 

probably the same reason he has to stay with an asexual just to be with someone...

 

To answer your first question, no, you are not a bad person. Bad boyfriend perhaps, but not a bad human being. First thing's first, while you may think you are doing her a favor by being with her and slowly helping her improve her life, you actually aren't by remaining with her and cheating behind her back. And no, that is not something "most guys" do, but it does happen. As far as the hooker situation, there are many issues with that such as legally, medically, and emotionally. There are better ways to spend your money, a hand or toy is far cheaper, emotionally the fact that you feel the need to use hookers must be taxing on you on an emotional level. Companionship is great and amazing, and I have made mistakes just to keep that companionship too. But the truth is that you shouldn't be with a woman whose sexuality isn't up to speed with yours. It's not fair to her, and it's not fair to you. There will be other women and most of them will be sexually interested if you play your cards right. But the way you're going about it is not the best way to deal with this situation. I strongly suggest that you break up with her but maintain a healthy friendship and you can then be companions as friends, you can still help her as a mate. And this way you are not doomed to finding hookers.

 

She has to think before going with you and I think you are not cheating with her

 

You love her and want to be with her despite the lack of intercourse. Sounds like she is a potential wife. Or at least you are looking at her that way.

You are horny and are addressing that with hookers, behind your beloved's back.

That's not a good start for a life long relationship with this woman. Whether she finds out our not, you are getting into the habit of sneaking behind your beloved's back. That's not a habit for the long haul.

You should get straight with her. Letting her know how important sex is to you, without trying to guilt her.

BTW, is orgasm without intercourse a direction that the two of your sex lives might take?

 

Ding!
Somehow, I get the impression that this isn't love. It seems more like desperation on both sides.

 

you're not a bad person...just an awful boyfriend.

Do you know its easier to break up with someone and fuck around then it is to be with someone and fuck around? You're just wasting energy man