I recently discovered masturbating with a vibrator about a month ago. I started out on the lowest setting and after about 5 minutes would have an amazing orgasm. The more and more Ive done it though, I have to set it on higher speeds to feel anything. I'm at the highest speed now and hardly feel anything, also my orgasms aren't nearly as intense as when I first started. Any suggestions?
Might be a case of you letting the vibrator do all the work. Try getting an even balance between you enjoying a fantasy and getting into that whilst the vibe does it's thing, rather than just sitting back waiting for the vibe to do it's thing. I'm not a woman but that's my best guess. I had a lap dance in a strip club once where the semi nude gyrating and undulating topless dancer reached down and felt my crotch, and... I wasn't hard which may have surprised her. Basically because I didnt find her attractive physically or personality wise. She could have gone at it all night and it would probably have become boring. Maybe you are Expecting the vibrator to do the work, but if you aren't getting into the right frame of mind it may just be a fun buzzing distraction in the background like the stripper I mentioned, unless you get in the right frame of mind? Basically, get yourself feeling horny first, then let it tip you over the edge once you are there. Does that help?
