I like my best friend

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Cold Brains, Mar 18, 2011.

  1. MayQueen~420~

    MayQueen~420~ ♫♪♫♪

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    Good decision, if you don't you will regret it later. I hope everything turns out good for you.
     
  2. Cold Brains

    Cold Brains Member

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    So I told her and she pretty much said exactly what I thought she would. She said she liked me too, but right now we need to be friends but there's a possibility for something.
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    in other words, she wants to continue using you for emotional support and is afraid that being honest would lead to her losing you altogether.
     
  4. Cold Brains

    Cold Brains Member

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    I could see why you would think that, but I know her and you don't. I know for a fact she was being completely honest with me. We'll see what happens in the future.
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    alright, good luck.
     
  6. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    Been there, done that :p

    But there's always the possibility you're right.
     
  7. RiffRaff

    RiffRaff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    You're over-analyzing it. Leave it alone. Let whatever happens, happen. Quit trying to force it or you will end up regretting it.
     
  8. HankMassey

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    In My View Firstly you have to find out that She Is Like You or Not . If She Like Then Then You Will Try....Best Of Luck
     
  9. MissinMarijuanna

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    Hey man. Im kinda going through the same thing right now. And ill just share my story with you. Its not really advice. But i guess it could be a possiblily of what will happen. I finally confessed my love for my best friend and she wasnt there to catch me. ever since then, things werent quite the same. I got really bad/pissed when i thought she had feelings for me for just the way we acted and how close we were to eachother, but then let me hit the ground. now im pretty sure another guy is in the situation. she became impossible to talk to and she started to lie. as of now, i will not talk to her. Just be careful man. i dont mean to be a debbiedowner. I also know that from experience, if you have feelings for her, but remain bestfriends, you will never get over her because she will always be around. Id say you have two options. Confess feelings or have that long talk with at the end of that long talk having definite answers. But be prepared to lose her completely. because if feelings turn out to be not mutual, your gonna want to get over her, but wont be able to if you remain bestfriends. thats how it is with me at least. But if things do work out then awesome shit for you man. Just be careful, and goodluck. I hope i helped a little bit.
     
  10. Illidan

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    Lol this is EXACTLY why male female friendship doesn't really exists, one of you always ends up falling for the other, OR one of you gets a bf/gf and starts ignoring the best friend.

    To answer the post I have to say this:
    Dude, now that you're in love with her the friendship is officially ruined anyway, just ask her out and make a move or just tell her. This will end up in two different ways, she will not correspond you, things will get awkward and you will see less of her day by day, or you end up being a couple, either way, like I said, the friendship is OVER.

    Congratulations on joining the oldest club in the history of mankind:
    "Get a female friend, think that friendship with the opposite sex really exists, fall in love with her, ruin the friendship" club.

    PS: Watch the movie "When Harry met Sally". Excellent movie.
     
  11. Stacey.

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    This is normal anyway, the closer you get with someone, the more likely it is to happen really.
     

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