My boyfriend tells me that he loves and and wants to be with me. We had dated for 8 months and broke up but now have recently started dating again. The problem is that he likes to sex chat with girls over text or online, he sent pictures of himself to other women and even met a girl and took her to a club and didn't even tell me.I admit I did some sneaking around and found out all of this. All of this isn't ok with me and I don't even remeber how many times I have told him. I am just confused becuase I know that he really wants to be with me but I don't understand why he kept doing it? He has never physically cheated on me, but he has done things that are not ok within my relationship guildlines. This time around I don't really have a lot of trust for him. I have mostly forgive him for the past and would just like it to work out. Hes 22 and I am 19 so we are pretty young. I would love some advice or any help you can give me.
you may have problems like that since, he can get in a bar and you can not.. If going out, is his thing.
The question I really would like to be answered is why would he tell me that he wants to be with me and then go behind my back and do stuff that he knows hurts me
give him the boot...he's using, or should I say, abusing your trust....I wouldnt stand for that for 1 second
Because he's a bullshitter that thinks he's slick enough to pull one over on you. He wants to with you, and get something on the side too.
well you said he hasn't had sex with anyone else, let alone for money, so no, he's not a whore. sounds like you guys want different things though, and would both be better off finding someone more compatible rather than trying to make each other change.
I know people whom have lost their bf's because they wanted to go to bars and "dance" lol. Dump his ass.
I'm a whore... ask my wife she'll tell you lol... but that doesn't mean I think its okay to cheat on her. Leave him. Hes no good.
Plain and simple...if he is sneaking around and talking to other girls he is probably doing things with them as well...u just havent found out...he obviously doesnt care about you enough or your feelings...DUMP HIM, you will be way better off
he may well want to be with you, and have a relationship with you, but is either not wired to be monogamous or is too immature to settle his behavior a bit. Either way, it is a mismatch and you would do well to assess what you want and go after that.
He's 22 and sounds like he wants to just mess around and be casual. If you want something more serious and stable you have to walk.
