So there's this girl at my school that im pretty in to. However, I'm having trouble reading her. She talks to me like whenever she can. She told me she wants me to play her some song on guitar. A mutual friend of ours keeps telling me that she's grilling him about me like 24/7. All this leads me to think that she's into me, but then when i talk to her about doing something, she calls me a feen. So what do you guys think i should do?
i know that's what i said. apparently its like someone who really strives for something? but i dont see how that would apply to me. hell, she asked me to prom!
I think the real question for me would be (whether she's into me or not), is prom the kind of thing I want to do? You finished the prom sentence with an exclamation point which makes me think you're excited about the idea, so what's the problem? What does talking to her about "doing something" mean? I thought she meant "fiend"...and by it she means you should lay off the crackpipe and get yourself a dick (nick for dictionary). Just kidding, guy. I hope you get whatever it is that you want. Edit: I thought she meant "sex-fiend" which would make it appear as though you want third base and you made it known. If that's the case, I would concentrate on how much I am willing to do things that are not my primary goal. If they're still fun for you, hey, what's the harm, right? :biggrin:
um well prom wouldn't really be what im after. i had to turn her down anyways cause i dont have the money. i just put the exclamation point because ive never seen a girl ask a guy to prom before. what i mean by doing something is that ive asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee and ive asked her if she wanted to smoke and both times she kind of gave me indefinitive answers. like "if i can".
I know what you mean. A girl who takes the initiative can be exciting. However, it sounds to me you guys want different things. I hope I am wrong, but if not, at least you now can say a girl invited you to the prom! :biggrin: Edit: And you'd be free to pursue people who want the same things as you.
yea, i get what you're saying. that's what i thought too, but our prom was like two weeks ago. and the whole time she was there, she kept texting me about how much it sucked and she won't leave me alone now?
I got this chick doing the same to me, too. She's all inviting me to go here and there, and getting my number again (her phone fell down the toilet she says!), and giving me rides home when I gave up on her about six months ago. She's just a cocktease and I treat her as such. But, you know cockteases have no pride! :biggrin: But I do set my boundaries. I'm not going to go out with her, no matter how much she squirms. She had her opportunity, and she blew it being evasive. Time to move on, sistah!
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=feen; feenin' you turn her down to prom, sounds like you want a bit of a fucky fucky hence, a feen - someone who is desperate for something. i think she might be calling you a bit of a sleaze.
oh wow dude. its the drugs. ive only ever talked to her about green twice and both times she's called me a feen.
well, there we go then. remember, i wasn't calling you those things - you didn't divulge all the story in that case, she doesn't like drugs. so lay off the drug talk.
