I'll admit that although I consider myself straight, I have watched gay porn on a couple occasions and have had some thoughts about maybe doing some stuff with a dude. Anyways, I've been having some thoughts about actually hooking up with a guy and experiencing it at least once. I feel like I'm in college and might as well give it a try. I'm sorta scared though because I'm not really sure what gay guys do. I don't want to go to the gay bar and try to get some random dude because I'm not really into random hookups. I've got some gay friends, but I'm scared about word getting out that I've done this. Also, what do most gay guys do on a hookup. Do you normally get it in the butt, cause I'm not sure I want that. I'd really like to just beat off with a guy or maybe suck or get sucked.
then go do that. you just said you have gay friends, why don't you ask one of them what gays do together?
It sounds like you are open-minded and curious. This is good. I wouldn't suggest going further than playing with his/your cock together (the first time anyway). You may be surprised by the extent of the emotions you will naturally experience when trying this. This is the dilemma of most hook-up/experimental sexual situations! Enojy yourself, I gave head briefly a long time ago... Haven't lost the urge to give some more
i have thought about this as well and have even gone as far as arranged a meet to which the other guy (gay) never showed and i found i was disappointed, i consider myself straight but am will to try to see just how it feels, life is about experience so i surgest you give it a go at least, i know i will be trying again
If you have gay friends, you're already a lot closer than most bi-curious people. Pick out which ones you can trust and ask them if they are interested in letting you experiment with them.
I'm a girl, so I have no experiene but I know gay people are regular people. You can just communicate with a guy about what you are interested in. Gay bar might not be a bad place. You know everyone there is ok with your desire, noone is going to hurt you for talking about it.
I am a girl but I have a friend that wondered this exact thing. I agree with someone up there who said definitely just suck etc the first time you don't want to get to overwhelmed. My friend asked his gay friend to experiment and the guy gave him a bj. he said it was too weird so definitely try something small first.
Not hating on you dude, but you're not straight. Sounds like you are bisexual and just now coming to terms with it.
A hippie walks into a gay bar and orders a beer. A guy walks up to him and says, "I'll give you a hand job in the bathroom. Meet me in 5 minutes." The hippie finishes his beer and leaves. His friend asked him how it went and he replied, "I don't know man somebody said something about a job so I split." C/S, Rev J
