Does this make me boring?

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by sockhippie, Mar 28, 2011.

  1. sockhippie

    sockhippie Member

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    I was talking to my friend this past weekend and we've talked in the past and have had normal conversations but that day, her facial expressions and body language showed that she wasn't interested in talking to me so I told her that I'd talk to her later.

    For some reason, I actually read the social cues and understood my surroundings. Does this make me boring? Was she having a stressful day?
     
  2. Dancing til Dawn

    Dancing til Dawn Senior Member

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    Could be a number of reasons-maybe she had a lot on her mind or had to rush off!
    I hope you work it out...:2thumbsup:
     
  3. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Why not just ask? That's what I would do if I was THAT concerned about it.
    All the best. :)
     
  4. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    There's your problem right there. You were the one talking. Women prefer to do the talking.

    When talking to a woman, don't talk. Just respond to what they're saying.
     
  5. she's a friend, ask her straight out if you were boring her or if she had something more pressing to be going on with and if that was they case why didn't she say something!
     
  6. Telepath

    Telepath Banned

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    i've had the same happen to me. the guy just needed a break from me, mostly because he had another girl on his mind.
     
  7. Telepath

    Telepath Banned

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    That's extremely boring. Don't do that, please.
     
  8. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    you're reading too much into this...
     
  9. Dancing til Dawn

    Dancing til Dawn Senior Member

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    :2thumbsup: communication is the key!
     
  10. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    Yes. The other day someone told me that grass is blue. Grass is now officially blue.
     
  11. TipsyGypsy

    TipsyGypsy Light of a Fading Star

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    If someone did that to me, then my facial expression and body language would definitely show that I am not interested in talking to you.
     
  12. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Sometimes when talking to a woman they will lose interest if you appear not interested. Be sure to stare at their breasts for the entire duration of the conversation. This will let them know that you're interested in the topic at hand.
     
  13. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    thats quite a generalization you made there :) I'm a woman and I'm usually the one bored to tears by overtalkative guys.

    lol you're funny. I've noticed you like to pretend to be sexist quite a bit on these forums but I'm onto you....

    In regards to the OP, she probably had some stuff on her mind. I wouldn't worry about it. There is the possibility that you could be boring, but only if you go on and on about yourself or about topics that no one cares about. Otherwise, I'm sure you're perfectly interesting and she was just distracted.
     
  14. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    ;)
     
  15. farmout

    farmout All who wander arent lost Lifetime Supporter

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    Lunar, you are such a horndog!.....;-D
     
  16. HankMassey

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    May Be She have a Stressful Day . But You have To find out What is Reasons Behind That ..
    It Is Your Responsibility
     
  17. Rugor

    Rugor Senior Member

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    why care what she thinks??? people who get bored easy and expect people to entertain them are annoying.

    plus it is hard to read someone. I do not like when people think they can read people.

    plus people need to be real. if she actually thought the conversation was not interesting, then she should have said hey guy, I think this conversation is boring.
     

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