So I'm a virgo and I've been dating an Aries man for about 8 months now. sometimes I think we are complete opposites and I want to kill him...hahaha...but I'm sooo attracted to him! We definitely have lots in common and he's a great guy, but our personalities are sooo different sometimes. he's a hot-headed Latino Aries man...never dated anyone quite like him before. my last boyfriend of almost 3 years was another Virgo. examples: him- He's super passionate when he gets angry and acts out with argumentative tone/yelling sometimes and says stuff he doesn't mean. then he'll feel bad about it and apologize afterwards. me- I get really quiet when i'm mad. i don't want to talk to anybody and i calculate everything before i say it. this drives him nuts. he's a really sweet guy and does alot of nice things for me, but I'm a sensitive virgo and can be somewhat critical of the people i love...i hold them to a high standard. sometimes i think this makes him feel "not good enough"....which makes me feel bad! Anyway, just asking for some advice on this match up. we both love each other and have been through ALOT in 8 months, and he's always been there for me. a real stand-up guy. the main thing is, even though we argue sometimes, we always work it out in the end...
To see how your other planets and luminaries interact, what aspects they make and which houses they reside in often provides the definition of your relationship over time and how it usually begins. For that you need your birth data and his.
I agree we need to see your charts to see the rest of your Signs. My experience is that we fall in love through our Rising Signs - they have Feelings for each other and they are the part of us that is responsive and Subjective - we get our impression of the world from this area. It is our Self, our personal hidden side that will react to others through the Traits we get from our Rising Sign.
